To think I have totally fucked up.

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Every year I have spent from September Christmas shopping.

I tend to grab a bargain in which I know family and DC will like.

Dh moaned about the money I was spending so I said to ok, change all my passwords and email sites that I use.

Coming up to Christmas and we have nothing and I feel my attitude with ok fuck it you deal with it has blown up in my face.

He was supposed to sort it and hasn't?

Do you have to save for christmas? Or do you have savings at the ready to use?

Did you or our oh change your password? Not sure what you mean by email sites?... Guessing you do all shopping online?

I never do any christmas shopping until end of November, if it makes you feel better....: but I hate shopping!

Ah yes, same issue I have with my DH annually. We set a budget, I shop savvily from September onwards, invite him to participate, he declines, then he complains about what I have bought come December.

No it is no where near Christmas yet.
Let him realise he has 2 pay packets to do Christmas with.
Let him do it .

You still have time, there are 7 Monday's left before Christmas. Have a word with your bloke if he's not going to sort it then he needs a rocket up his arse.

What?

You told him to disallow all your websites etc by changing your password so you can't shop? Is that what you're saying? If so that whole scenario is seriously fucked up.

Did you ask him to shop? Were you spending daft amounts? What's the issue?

You have nothing as in money or gifts? I really don't get it

This sounds a bit odd, how do you access your emails ? Does he have access to all you money too? You can browse online and work out what you want even if you don't buy it now.

You let him change your passwords?!

Well OP? Are you going to clarify what you mean or have you just posted a load of unintelligible dribble and done a runner?

It's early fucking November. Christmas is hardly ruined just yet.

I know it's unusual for you this way, but Christmas has bit even crossed my mind yet. I imagine that's true for most people? I'll think about it early to mid December.
So, don't worry, plenty of time.

There's only 7 Monday's left until Christmas?!

I'm a bit confused OP sorry. Can you explain a bit more?

If it helps I haven't bought a thing yet. I never really get going til mid November really.

I'd simply let all and sundry know that my DH is 'in charge' of buying gifts this year per his request and just sit back and watch it all blow up in his face.

I really hate that purse-controlling shit. DH and I agree ahead of time on a gift budget and once that's settled, I do the shopping and he keeps out of it.

So, do you think you were spending too much?

*mondays !!

Oh, and yeah, it's not nearing Christmas just yet. Despite what John Lewis would have you believe.

I think the bigger issue here is;
A) You feeling you have to pacify him by having him change your passwords
and
B) Him feeling fucking entitled to change your passwords.

NothingNew Nae need to act like a dick. Op is a regular poster. Not everyone returns to a thread every five minutes.

Are you living 6 weeks in the future?

'Coming up to Christmas and we have nothing'.

Eh? Points to note - it's nowhere near 'coming up to Christmas'?!
You have weeks and weeks to decide what to buy people and get on with it
Why on earth would you ask him to change all your passwords for online shopping? Even if he did, you just set up another account at the same site (with a different email address - freely available within a minute at any number of providers...)
Did Christmas get changed to 10th Nov in your neck of the woods? nothing has blown up in your face - he has plenty of time to organise a fabulous Christmas, if that was your agreement?

You've got ages OP, if he gets to December and buys fuck all then you've made your point and reclaim control of the gift giving.

Or, as I said above but with improved grammar

You've got lots of time calm down. Most deals, specials come up now in any case.

I read it as the OP usually shops well before Christmas, there was some conflict about what she was spending so she told her husband to change her passwords. She is now worried because nothing has been purchased yet.