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about a colleague who constantly refers to her husband as 'hubby'

160 replies

Polyannatunnel · 22/10/2015 14:03

It's driving me nuts!Angry

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squoosh · 22/10/2015 14:45

No need to murder hubby. Just have a stern word.

squoosh · 22/10/2015 14:45

Daddy Bear and Mummy Bear couple should be removed from civilized society and placed in a sealed bunker. For all time.

OnlyHereForTheCamping · 22/10/2015 14:46

Yanbu, do you work with a Catherine Tate character?

reni2 · 22/10/2015 14:48

Daddy Bear + Mummy Bear Grin poor Flatmate Bear having to listen.

If you killed the colleague hubby would be widdy.

DawnOfTheDoggers · 22/10/2015 14:48

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Polyannatunnel · 22/10/2015 14:48

WendyTorrance You absolutely win.
I have tried to refrain from adding this but I'm just going to have to.
This is day one working with my colleague who is undeniably nice but also refers to her children as 'the bubs'

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CactusAnnie · 22/10/2015 14:52

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acazc · 22/10/2015 14:52

Totally on your side: "hubby" "bubs" = vile. Do you know what else unreasonably annoys me?! "Sarnies" and "crimbo". VILE.

Whatthefreakinwhatnow · 22/10/2015 14:55

YANBU - hubby, hubs and lil man all make me murderous! Angry

Polyannatunnel · 22/10/2015 14:55

acazc I read a previous post on this. Aside from hubby. Can't stand the words 'discharge or panties' Envy

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squoosh · 22/10/2015 14:57

In Glasgow a lot of women, especially older women, refer to 'my man'. It's all very Lana Turner except 'my man' usually looks a bit like Andy Capp.

WendyTorrance · 22/10/2015 15:00
LagunaBubbles · 22/10/2015 15:00

I find even 'husband' massively cringey Why? Confused

Norest · 22/10/2015 15:06

Hubby is vile. Emasculating and as though the husband is a pet. I would bet my left arm none of these people calling their husbands 'hubby' would feel great about being referred to as 'wifey'. Hmm

Can. Not. Stand. It.

Lulabellarama · 22/10/2015 15:18

I have an acquaintance who uses 'hubsicle'

I win the thread.

G1veMeStrength · 22/10/2015 15:19

I KNEW she would say bubs too. Are you in charge of her? She must be on probation?

OOAOML · 22/10/2015 15:20

I'm boring, I call mine by his name. Or if I'm in a bad mood I might refer to him by something uncomplimentary. I can't imagine the word 'hubby' ever passing my lips, and I think I would have an involuntary lip curl of disgust at myself if I did.

Poly I don't like the word panties either, it sounds a bit sleazy and also makes me think of an insubstantial garment, probably with itchy lace and made of man-made fibres. I am a comfortable cotton undergarments girl myself.

I did used to know a couple who kept referring to each other my little affectionate nicknames including Firstname-Bear. It was all very sweet. I'm not really into very sweet.

OOAOML · 22/10/2015 15:21

hubsicle? Is she regularly surrounded by people trying not to vomit?

green18 · 22/10/2015 15:21

I worked with a woman who referred to her baby/toddler niece as 'Littlun' ALL the time.Never found out the child's real name. Made me laugh every time, had to turn away.

JustAWeeProblem · 22/10/2015 15:23

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merrymouse · 22/10/2015 15:23

Surely after a while there is no longer a need to identify somebody in relation to yourself and you just use their name?

motherinferior · 22/10/2015 15:25

Please kill her. It's kinder in the long run.

green18 · 22/10/2015 15:25

Yes merry and on a similar note, AIBU to be irritated that my MIL always buys greetings card with our relationship to her stated on it, including Christmas cards and anniversary cards.cLike, I know i'm her DIL by now!

YakTriangle · 22/10/2015 15:41

YY to sarnies, and I hate 'butty' as well. I don't care how hungover you are, you're having a bacon sandwich or a bacon roll, not a sodding butty.

YakTriangle · 22/10/2015 15:41

And fucking 'brolly' as well.

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