YANBU.
I feel that a belief in any kind of "personal god" or "loving being/life guide", (as opposed to some sort of force of nature which has no emotion or judgement), shows a lack of logic and is a weakness in someone's mental capabilities.
I wouldn't laugh at someone for having such beliefs, but I would be a bit disappointed/less impressed by them if I found out that they were religious/spiritual.
I equate religious beliefs with thinking fairies exist, or that alien abductions are real or that astrology is true etc. And I really wouldn't want to be married to someone with such an irrational belief.
I do not want to have to respect anyone's "faith", as where do we draw the line at respecting irrational beliefs? (Why not respect any/all kinds of made-up beliefs then, as believing in a god has no basis in science?)
The main religions we are conditioned to unquestioningly accept/respect today are just historical, cultural nonsense beliefs which haven't yet died out. And these are not any more true than other beliefs which are no longer current/fashionable.
There are, of course, many (older) religions/beliefs which used to be very strongly held/respected/fought for, but which are no longer 'current'. These 'extinct' religions/belief systems just prove the faulty logic in all religious beliefs, as they can't ALL be correct? And, more logically, none of them are true, as none has more 'evidence' than any other? (Some are just 'nicer' than others in today's cultural context?)
We all have our achilles heal, mentally/emotionally speaking. (Me included.) I think having "a faith/religion" is just one of these 'chinks' in our emotional armour, and I am glad I am free of that particular one.
Of course, most 'believers', (but not all), are nice ppl. But most will have been educated (ie brainwashed) to believe when very young, with the importance of 'faith' will have been emphasised, (as opposed to any real evidence), and maybe augmented by a hard-to-pin-down (ie verify) significant personal event, which someone can mis-understand and take as a religious experience? (Such things as a coincidence, a hallucination or just a vague 'weird feeling'? All fairly normal to the human condition and to be taken as 'signs' of a 'god'?)
Young children are very open/vulnerable, so it seems mean to me to force-feed them religious beliefs, (as truths), because it is harder for them to resist than when say adolescents. (The majority of believers will automatically follow the religion of their family/tribe for the reason that they were indoctrinated at a young age and feel bad to go against their family/tribe.)
When kids 'believe' there is a monster under the bed, what do we tell them? (If we encouraged them, they might grow up to be convinced the monster under the bed is real ... just invisible, mystical and unknowable?)
Some adults, (like me), reject their childhood religion once they think about it in detail. (And I feel the better for it.) But other adults will seek out 'a new belief', I guess to fit in to a new group or when feeling in need of some reassurance/love/tribal belonging/life meaning.
I would not like to be cruel in taking away someone's emotional 'crutch', (ie religous beliefs), but I also do not want to accept what they believe might be true. And it would worry me that someone can be so easily persuaded to believe something as important as that without any actual evidence could also be effective as a scientist or as 'a thinker'.
Cos religion is all just "make-believe". And intelligent people normally reject make-believe once they have grown up? (Well that's just my opinion of course!)