I kind of agree with some of your points CM, just not the angry method in which you delivered them.
I think most people wouldn't look twice at Harry if he was serving them in Asda. I am sure there are some who would, but in general I think a lot of his attractiveness does stem from other things, and not his actual looks. But that's ok. I actually like Ryan Gosling but would not look twice at him either if he was walking down the street. The characters he plays makes me attracted to him. There is nothing wrong with that.
I am sorry for what you are going through but the thing is, when you steam in on a thread and make offensive comments you have to accept that you are not going to get a great deal of sympathy from others, because you put their backs up. You can't call people gold diggers and names then expect people to turn around and forget all of that because you have opened up.
I suggest that you should hide this thread because it isn't healthy for you. By all means start another thread about your disorder but this isn't the thread for it and it is not going to do you any good.