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To think Prince Harry is a bit yummy!!

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Cockbollocks · 15/09/2015 13:32

Honestly, he's definitely growing up to be a fine looking lad don't you think.
Sorry for DM link, I luffs to check the slab twaddle!!

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3235036/Prince-Harry-celebrates-turning-31-Battle-Britain-flypast-sporting-scruffy-facial-hair.html

Hes also really starting to look like his dad a better looking version!!

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TwmSionCati · 17/09/2015 12:45

" I can't find a woman "

aww poor CM, but it is hardly surprising is it?

cocoabearinparis · 17/09/2015 12:45

cm is this you?

To think Prince Harry is a bit yummy!!
squoosh · 17/09/2015 12:45

a blond babyfaced guy like me be

Grin Grin

Upload your photo. Let us all back in the glory of your beauty.

EponasWildDaughter · 17/09/2015 12:48

CM78 - if you're new to MN - welcome. And please stick around. I mean that sincerely.

cocoabearinparis · 17/09/2015 12:49

this is cm

To think Prince Harry is a bit yummy!!
squoosh · 17/09/2015 12:53
Grin
Yambrel · 17/09/2015 12:59

CM78,

Your opinion = your opinion
Everybody else's opinion = just as valid

CM23 · 17/09/2015 13:06

Nice go at fucking banning me, simply because yo want to censor my views. We all know there are plenty of women on here who actually agree with me, especially about Harry.

I am going to play football now, but I will say a couple of things first.

I would say I am better looking than Harry, yes, at least when healthy. I'm more boyish though and less 'dickhead looking', and women tend to like the latter (see Channing Tatum, not at all good looking but exudes masculinity and looks like he's amazing in bed).

As per my looks, I look like a lesser Di Caprio in Titanic. Although I was recently told I am better looking than him, which is bollocks.

What does it say about society that an educated, decent looking, caring (you can't tell from my posts here but that's because I have had it up to here with women) gets treated terribly because of the decline in my physical appearance due to weight loss? Yet a brainless, talentless, unattractive parasite like Harry has women queuing up simply because he's a prince? It's pathetic.

My life has been fucking destroyed my this disorder. I can't eat, people are worried I will die soon, I look skeletal mostly, I feel ill, I am depressed. You'd think that women - especially the older ones - would show a caring, motherly instinct. But no, like sharks to blood, they sense my vulnerability and attack me and berate me, telling me I am a loser, I'm not good enough, that I am destroying myself and am not a real man. Is it any fucking wonder I am starting to hate women? Do you think I want to? But when they treat me the way they have what am I supposed to do? Be a doormat? Rob myself of my own self-respect? Fuck, 5 or 10 years ago women liked my looks a lot, many of them. Now because of my physical decline they treat me like garbage despite the fact I am the same guy inside? Better, in fact, as I am more educated now.

You lot will prove my point by laughing at this post, rather than actually showing compassion for my current plight. You'll just mock me.

And that's why i mocked Harry. Things are hard enough for me due to my circumstances (and many other men) without seeing flattery of this guy. I mean it's stunningly obvious that these females are blinded by his fame and royal status. It's like rubbing salt into my wounds.

If I haven't been banned again, I will talk about biology later. I understand why many women are shallow - it's a biological imperative. But fucking making me and other men feel an inch tall because of my physical decline is really scummy and I deserve better. I am struggling enough due to not being able to eat, without being told what a scrawny rat I am beginning to look like. I am fucking suicidal for fuck sake.

Go on, fucking laugh away.

CM23 · 17/09/2015 13:07

Tambrel - it's not a matter of opinion, though.

Harry has insane money and status, the likes of which very few other men have. These things obviously come into play when assessing his looks, it is undeniable.

CM23 · 17/09/2015 13:12

Ask yourselves this - how would you like it if you were too scared to eat solid food because you have an irrational fear of choking to death? How would you like to have constant anxiety attacks and develop a dependency on valium.

Before judging me and my erratic behaviour, perhaps put yourselves in my shoes and think of the fucking catastrophe my life has become. Perhaps try to understand.

OhFuckWhatHaveIDone · 17/09/2015 13:19

CM23, if you come onto an internet forum and make a thread all about you and your ideas about women and hypergamy and sounding like you came here from the less pleasant parts of TSR or directly from The Red Pill, you are going to get a bad response. The thing is, the thread is not about you. Your eating disorder is irrelevant and people do not need to take it into account when responding to the bollocks you're posting - except maybe to realise that you're clearly struggling and lashing out and to take what you're saying a little less seriously. But not everyone is that empathetic.

CM23 · 17/09/2015 13:22

What I am saying isn't bollocks though. These things are well observed in society and male-female relationships.

I don't read The Red Pill either. I'm not even full red pilled. I hold out hope that there are some decent women left in western society, although that hope dwindles with every passing day.

This all came out inadvertently. I posted originally to mock Harry. But there's no way I am being told I am ugly (when you haven't even saw me) or a loser, or not good enough, by people who have a thing for an utter waster like Prince Harry. No chance.

if you think I am going to happily take criticism from women who blindingly accept him, I am afraid you have another thing coming. it's insulting.

Yambrel · 17/09/2015 13:22

CM, I'm sorry you have an eating disorder. A good number of people posting here have emotional or physical problems that affect their lives greatly so probably have some understanding of what you are dealing with.

I didn't say I liked Prince Harry, did I? You're making assumptions about other people and attacking them because they don't follow your own rules of what is right and wrong.

Women sometimes like to fantasise (so do men, I hear), that's all we're doing. It makes life a little bit easier and more fun.

cocoabearinparis · 17/09/2015 13:24

sorry cm, I didn't realise. I found a picture of a skinny angry blonde baby doll. HTH.

To think Prince Harry is a bit yummy!!
OhFuckWhatHaveIDone · 17/09/2015 13:24

And IME crushes on actors/celebs are down to feeling like you get to know the person a bit and they seem 'safe' and lovely, and not one of the sea of cunts that the rest of the menfolk can seem to be sometimes. Nothing to do with their money, at all. Of course it's not likely to be accurate, you fall for a character, or at least an exclusively positive side of them that gets shown to the media.

But it's just a crush - a longing to bypass having to wade through the sea of shit that is men in our society. And I love my (male) partner. I've loved other male partners. But, by God, the process of trying to find one that isn't a twat in multiple ways due to the way our society socialises men (and women) is a nearly insurmountable challenge sometimes.

CM23 · 17/09/2015 13:24

By the way, I was like this even when I was healthy and had a better response from women. Not the woman-hating stuff, but the idea that they are massively attracted to money and fame.

Other men I think are hugely overrated in looks because of fame: Channing Tatum, John Cena, Justin Timberlake, Ryan Gosling (okay looking but a little horsey, eyes too close together, but this 'best looking man ever' nonsense is what the media has started and lots of women have predictably fallen for it).

CM23 · 17/09/2015 13:26

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cocoabearinparis · 17/09/2015 13:26

CM there is more to life than getting attention from the opposite sex. Go out and find it.

cocoabearinparis · 17/09/2015 13:27

Tonight I'm having cocoa and an episode of the Wire.

CM23 · 17/09/2015 13:28

Exactly, it's a media belief.

I find that hilarious, though. Most celebrities are scumbags. Yet here you are talking about how people like them because they think they're NOT scumbags, like most men. Shows the power of media indoctrination.

Fact is Harry isn't good looking. What makes him better than any average guy walking in a British street? Other than money and status? Nothing, of course. He has objectively ugly features.

But Harry is another story, this is more about the wider issue of celebrity worship.

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OhFuckWhatHaveIDone · 17/09/2015 13:30

This all came out inadvertently. I posted originally to mock Harry. But there's no way I am being told I am ugly (when you haven't even saw me) or a loser, or not good enough, by people who have a thing for an utter waster like Prince Harry. No chance.

if you think I am going to happily take criticism from women who blindingly accept him, I am afraid you have another thing coming. it's insulting.

Do yourself and don't think of posters as one homogeneous mass. That was my first post on the thread, so while I indeed haven't seen you, I haven't called you anything either. Nor do I have a thing for Prince Harry. Nor do many people on this thread, including ones who responded negatively to you. You don't have to 'happily' take criticism from anyone, but you came onto the thread and riled people. You didn't wander in here innocently sharing your opinion and expecting no response, did you?

There's a difference between defending your point/yourself and lashing out like an undersocialised child when everyone doesn't say exactly what you want. If you're genuinely turning this into a scenario where you are the innocent victim in this then you need to go have a word with yourself.

OhFuckWhatHaveIDone · 17/09/2015 13:30

Do yourself a favour*

cocoabearinparis · 17/09/2015 13:32

You're overthinking it snookums.

Try maybe talking to women. Like "isn't it crazy weather we are having today?". Or "been anywhere interesting in holiday recently?". Or "how was your day?"

Other topics are available. Skinniness and facial features are irrelevant, but if you can't think about anything else other than how much you hate Ron Weasley you're maybe not gonna do so well

OhFuckWhatHaveIDone · 17/09/2015 13:34

Based on looks and education, I should be getting attention from the opposite sex, and Harry should not. But women care more about money and status than education and looks.

As I already said, it's exposure to the (acted or not) personality of these people that allows people to fantasise about them being genuinely good partners. It's nothing to do with money and status. You're making yourself look like an idiot and a misogynist by repeating that shit after the explanation has already been given to you (by more people than just me).