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To think teething can't be THIS bad?

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WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 19:39

First time mum here, and I'm starting to think I'm missing something blindingly obvious, so maybe you guys can suggest if something is wrong, or, if teething really is like this, I obviously have no comparison.

I'll start from when my daughter's mood changed to see if you see a pattern.

My daughter has been showing the signs of teething from about 6 months, and is now 8 months old.

On Wednesday my daughter was very lethargic, falling asleep in the high chair (never happens) and slept through the night (never happens). She had a taster session at nursery with me for an hour, and perked up and had a good time.

I am back at work next week, and this Thursday she had a taster hour at nursery without me, she cried for the duration, inconsolable, even the staff were a little taken aback lol. Anyway, from that moment, she has been gradually becoming more and more off.

After nursery she was very soft and clingly with me, expected, and pretty glary and moody with me, probably because I left her at nursery. She held her arms out to me for the first time ever, and hasn't stopped since.

Last night she screamed for hours, checked her temp and was fine, checked later and had jumped up to 38/39. I put it down to her being worked up and too warm in a 2.5 tog grobag (which she usually wears because she is a cold baby, but the crying heated her right up)

A couple of hours later temp was fine but still pretty much screaming unless she was sleeping. She woke up through the night but no more than usual.

Today she has been pretty unbearable, worst day we've ever had since she was born. She has cried all day, If I look at her, she cries, If I talk, her bottom lip goes, and she cries, if I put her down she cries and grabs hold of me, but if I pick her up, she cries. If I say shhhhhhh she completely loses it. Even tried her with the Twirly Woos, which send her into a giggling mess. She just smacked the laptop a few times and screamed.

changing her nappy was a massive fight every time, kicking, screaming, fighting it.

Crying until she's gagging

Screaming very high pitched in the high chair after every spoon of feeding

Throughout the day she's been very extreme in her chewing, holding her mouth, and her face, stuffing her fist in her mouth and crying... which would lead me to think it is teething... is teething really this chaotic.

This morning she refused breakfast but had milk. Had two spoons of dinner but still had milk and water, had 3 spoons of tea, still had her night feed and has just fallen asleep. Oh and she's snoring... never snores... nose isn't blocked.

I literally could do nothing for her today, so I can't imagine how monday will be at nursery :(

Am I missing something blindingly obvious here? (she has no rashes or anything, she hasn't vomitted, which is actually odd because she has reflux)

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LissieD · 12/09/2015 19:41

Could it be an ear infection?

WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 19:41

By the way she has had teething gel all day, probably too much I admit!! sometimes it soothes her and she'll have her dummy in and manage a little dose.

Teething toys make her angry

She's had calpol but she just spits it out so a dose is almost worthless!

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SueGeneris · 12/09/2015 19:43

Have you tried giving her calpol? I would try it if she seems to be in pain. Then you should be able to tell if that's what it is.

I think it can be that bad. I have certainly had to give calpol for teething.

SueGeneris · 12/09/2015 19:43

Sorry cross post!

WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 19:44

LissieD just had a look at ear infection online.

Symptoms are pretty vague, but it could be!... I guess that's just a wait and see thing too like the teething....

She was getting upset eating solids... and she's a brilliant eater.. but swallowing bottles didn't seem to be a problem

I also forgot to mention, when I say she is literally crying all day... even the odd time she's played, she still had tears rolling down her face.

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WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 19:45

Lol no worries SueGeneris

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SueGeneris · 12/09/2015 19:46

Ear infection is a good suggestion. Very very painful. If you think it's likely I'd take her to out of hours.

mewkins · 12/09/2015 19:47

I vote ear infection. Ds is a bit older and has been as you describe. Took him to out of hours gp today and he has a raging ear infection. He is also teething but that rarely affects his sleep. He is on regular ibuprofen until the antibiotics kick in. Take her to the docs asap I think.

mewkins · 12/09/2015 19:47

Ps. He didn't have a temperature with it.

sproketmx · 12/09/2015 19:49

Teething can be that bad and worse but it could be other things too. I used to give my wee boy ice poles or a metal spoon. Was the only thing that helped him

Pensfriends · 12/09/2015 19:49

Could it be a throat infection or similar? It does sound more severe than my three when they've been teething but of course every baby is different. Maybe take her to the dr for a quick look at her on Monday if she's no better? I hope she's better soon.

WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 19:51

She's asleep at the moment, Her night wakings last night weren't any worse than usual.. seems to be only the days that she gets worse...

I'll let her sleep tonight (Last time we took her to urgent care GP we ended up being sent to a different town at 1am for a bloody eye infection... which turned out to be sticky eye!)

If she's just as iffy tomorrow I'll get 111 called and get an urgent care doc. I live right next to my hospital and they always refer children to a hospital an hour away... nightmare!

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Just2MoreSeasons · 12/09/2015 19:56

I also thought ear infection coupled with teething.
Is she BFing? When cradled does she cry more on one side? The infected ear hurts more when it's down I find.
Offset the calpol and nurofen . Put it by the cheek where back molars would be and rub a bit once you've pressed the syringe, and just put a tiny bit in at a time.
Docs tomorrow.

yorkshapudding · 12/09/2015 19:57

DD was like this when teething. It was a bloody nightmare. That said, if your instinct is telling you it's something more then best to get the GP to have a look at her. They don't mind you being cautious when it comes to young babies.

BertieBotts · 12/09/2015 19:58

I would do calpol tomorrow and take to GP on Monday if she isn't seeming better.

Obviously if it gets any worse then take to hospital, but I think you should be okay to go to Mon with what you've described. Do follow your instinct, though, if it doesn't feel right then it probably isn't right.

WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 20:00

Just2MoreSeasons

She's worse sat up! she's just been lying accross my crossed legged in a cradle position feeding herself a bottle, cried and chewed on her blanky while sucking a dummy at the same time, I don't know how, and now she's dropped off and I've moved her to the cot.

She screamed the most in her high chair when I tried feeding her, and she would play, but only with one hand rested on me.

I can't work out whether she is poorly, or if she's literally so worked up with anxiety because of nursery, because she doesn't seem to want to do anything unless she is touching me at the same time...

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GloGirl · 12/09/2015 20:01

It sounds like teething to me. That being said my little one was definitely teething but he had a high temp for a long time so I went to out of ours -he also had an ear infection.

Baby Nurofen is better for teething pain. I'd you do go to out of hours you could try asking for a prescription for paracetamol suppositories

WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 20:02

BertieBotts

Calpol - we used the calpol syringe but it comes out too gloopy and she just opens her mouth until it dribbles out, so we tried the thinner syringe you get from boots, she would just cough and spit it out. (We do it in the cheek bit by bit)

Tried a spoon, because she always takes her vitamins on a spoon no problem and she spoon feeds, she just pushes it all out with tongue..

I think she hates the taste...

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Iggly · 12/09/2015 20:02

She sounds unwell to me. Could be a virus e.g.like the flu or ear infection

WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 20:05

I'll just have to pray whatever it is she's over the worst of it today! Because out of ours docs are such a farce.. they really are. And you never get what you want. And baby smiles despite spending hours crying and makes you out to be a bloody judas! :)

She just looks how I feel when I have the flu. Bloody fed up and weak and worked up and knackered (but won't sleep!) lol...

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WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 20:09

Oh another thing that made me thing teeth, blowing angry bubbles whenever I try and put something in her mouth,

She's just woke up, Had a little look in her ears and a tug of her ear lobes... she didn't react to her ears being messed with at all...

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WhatTheJeffHasGoneOnHere · 12/09/2015 20:17

Have you tried a different flavour calpol? Any generic paracetamol will do. And nurofen as well. We find with dc2 that nurofen works much better for his teeth. What about teething gel?

WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 20:17

Just given her calpol and she's literlly blown it all out in bits in whimpery raspberries...

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mewkins · 12/09/2015 20:19

With the medicine, use the syringe right near the back onside cheek and blow quickly on her nose which will make her take a sharp intake of breath and swallow.

WhatTheJeffHasGoneOnHere · 12/09/2015 20:20

You could get paracetamol suppositories from the pharmacy.

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