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To think teething can't be THIS bad?

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WhatsTheT · 12/09/2015 19:39

First time mum here, and I'm starting to think I'm missing something blindingly obvious, so maybe you guys can suggest if something is wrong, or, if teething really is like this, I obviously have no comparison.

I'll start from when my daughter's mood changed to see if you see a pattern.

My daughter has been showing the signs of teething from about 6 months, and is now 8 months old.

On Wednesday my daughter was very lethargic, falling asleep in the high chair (never happens) and slept through the night (never happens). She had a taster session at nursery with me for an hour, and perked up and had a good time.

I am back at work next week, and this Thursday she had a taster hour at nursery without me, she cried for the duration, inconsolable, even the staff were a little taken aback lol. Anyway, from that moment, she has been gradually becoming more and more off.

After nursery she was very soft and clingly with me, expected, and pretty glary and moody with me, probably because I left her at nursery. She held her arms out to me for the first time ever, and hasn't stopped since.

Last night she screamed for hours, checked her temp and was fine, checked later and had jumped up to 38/39. I put it down to her being worked up and too warm in a 2.5 tog grobag (which she usually wears because she is a cold baby, but the crying heated her right up)

A couple of hours later temp was fine but still pretty much screaming unless she was sleeping. She woke up through the night but no more than usual.

Today she has been pretty unbearable, worst day we've ever had since she was born. She has cried all day, If I look at her, she cries, If I talk, her bottom lip goes, and she cries, if I put her down she cries and grabs hold of me, but if I pick her up, she cries. If I say shhhhhhh she completely loses it. Even tried her with the Twirly Woos, which send her into a giggling mess. She just smacked the laptop a few times and screamed.

changing her nappy was a massive fight every time, kicking, screaming, fighting it.

Crying until she's gagging

Screaming very high pitched in the high chair after every spoon of feeding

Throughout the day she's been very extreme in her chewing, holding her mouth, and her face, stuffing her fist in her mouth and crying... which would lead me to think it is teething... is teething really this chaotic.

This morning she refused breakfast but had milk. Had two spoons of dinner but still had milk and water, had 3 spoons of tea, still had her night feed and has just fallen asleep. Oh and she's snoring... never snores... nose isn't blocked.

I literally could do nothing for her today, so I can't imagine how monday will be at nursery :(

Am I missing something blindingly obvious here? (she has no rashes or anything, she hasn't vomitted, which is actually odd because she has reflux)

OP posts:
Greenstone · 13/09/2015 09:00

How is she today OP?

purplefizz26 · 13/09/2015 16:49

My DD has been exactly like this, she has a virus, particularly affecting her ears and throat according to the GP. No antibiotics required, so just dosing her up on calpol and calprofen.
Teething can be horrific in our experience, so it could well be that, but perhaps a trip to the doctor might confirm whether its a virus or bacterial infection?

purplefizz26 · 13/09/2015 16:51

Oh and try anbesol liquid (not gel) for teeth!!! It's fab!

WhatsTheT · 16/09/2015 11:57

Hello everyone,

I forgot I had posted this in all the chaos and must have seemed rude not responding!

She was in urgent care twice over the weekend, once for what I wrote above, then she was covered in a rash.

No ear infection but her throat was all swollen, doc suggested it was viral and to just keep giving her calpol and then neurofen when I reached max 24 hours dose and lots of water.

Today has probably been the first day she's back to herself. I caught it off her too.

Teeth are still bothering her. But the virus was the main prob.

Thanks for everyone's help and suggestions!

OP posts:
Greenstone · 16/09/2015 12:07

Oh bless her. Poor thing. I couldn't get over the difference in my DD once she was back to herself. Hope you're feeling better too OP.

WhatsTheT · 16/09/2015 14:45

Thank you Greenstone :)

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Hellocampers · 16/09/2015 14:48

Didn't post but read.

Glad she's better op. Teething can be an absolute nightmare despite many doctors dismissing it as a myth. Wink

Elsie212 · 17/09/2015 09:41

Teething granules work very well.

Hope she gets better very quickly Flowers

Cherryblossomsinspring · 17/09/2015 09:52

If she is roaring like that I would bring her for a check up. No shame in doing that when they are not acting like themselves. I had a few days like that with my 5mth old and was tearing my head out only for her to wake with a burst eardrum, the poor thing did have an ear infection and I ignored it (other than calpol and getting cross myself).

Cherryblossomsinspring · 17/09/2015 09:53

Oops, sorry, thought I had read to the end.

But same advice in future, if she is not herself, a quick trip to the GP is not wasting anyones time when they are very small.

TracyBarlow · 17/09/2015 09:59

For future reference, I've had 3 cal pol refusers and I put them flat on their backs on my knee, tip their head right back at a 50 degree angle so they can't sit up then syringe it right to the very back of their mouths all in on go. Don't sit them up again until it's all gone down. That way they physically can't spit it out.

Glad she's a bit better.

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