He's weird. He smells. They've been together a year and he comes with her to everything; insults people, is awkward, stares weirdly at my kids and grins, he mimicks speech patterns and then looks confused when you tell him to stop it.
He turned up at my house uninvited, smelling like death, for my daughter's birthday. No gift, no happy birthday to my daughter, just ate our food drank our beer and talked loudly over everyone while being stinky and taking up the sofa.
Now we are trying to think of a way to have a family meal without him for my husband's birthday.
AIBU to just not want him there and be considering not inviting any of DH's family to avoid the awkward conversation explaining we don't like him?
(NC - booble plate)