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WIBU to dump my shopping and walk out of Asda?

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wannabetennisplayer · 06/09/2015 16:29

Today I went to Asda for a shop - running later than planned due to a bus not turning up (which admittedly I can't blame Asda for!) - but still with enough time to do a shop. Long queues at the checkout. I am directed to a self-service till which turns out to be even more temperamental than usual (even if you remove all the scanned items, apparently thin air is an "unexpected item in bagging area") so I have to call for help a few times - and, as usual, there are only one or two poor sods on self-service till duty running around like blue-arsed
flies - and on one of the occasions my till was playing up there were no staff anywhere in the self-service till area (which I would estimate has about 20 - 24 tills) for several minutes. Not blaming them as it is obviously the supermarket who understaffs the tills.

Once I've scanned my items, I try to pay with my card but it doesn't seem to be working. One of the members of staff comes over and tries it a couple of times and then says 'oh, yeah, I think the card reader wasn't working on this one'. Now, if at this point, he had said 'this is the start of a long process to make a card payment', I would have asked him to cancel a couple of items off the bill and just bought what I had the cash for but, he just said 'come with me to make the payment'.

He takes me to the customer service point (again with a long queue) and gives a print out from the self-service till to the woman at the counter. I ask if I'll be expected to queue up again and/or everything will need to be scanned again and he says 'no, just wait next to the counter and she'll take the payment after she's finished dealing with the current customer - and it doesn't need to be scanned again as she's got this slip.' He leaves and then the customer service woman tells me to get to the back of the queue. I explain the situation and that I have already queued up etc but she says that I have to go to the back of the queue. As it's the customer service point, everyone is complaining about faulty electrical items, wanting to exchange items etc so none of them are going to be quick transactions.

As time is ticking on, my options are either to continue to wait in this queue and not make a gym class that I intended to attend later that day or to give up on the shopping - so in the end I emptied the shopping on the customer service counter, told the member of staff that I didn't have time and walked out. Slightly more dramatic than I intended but the bags were mine so I had to empty the contents onto the counter if I was going to leave!

What would you have done?

OP posts:
PastaLaFeasta · 06/09/2015 17:44

I left a Caffe Nero the other day. Ordered a coffee, a treat for DD and a muffin. The server was exceptionally and unnecessarily rude. I just gave a wide eyed smile, said nothing and when she turned to get my coffee I took DD's hand and walked out. Saved me a fortune as I popped into a co-op and got a croissant for just 75p instead.

I'd definitely walk if I didn't have time. I also hate the self service machine. Online shopping every time.

AnneEyhtMeyer · 06/09/2015 17:45

This is one of the reasons I switched to online shopping. I got sick of the shop wanting me to work for nothing.

Phoenix67 · 06/09/2015 17:45

YABU

After too many experiences like OP, I tend to do most of my food shop online!

londonrach · 06/09/2015 17:54

Well done. For record last time i visited asda i picked up a few bits. Couldnt find something. Wondered around the store getting lost then i almost got run over by a child on a scooter and then taken out by one of their home delivery trolley (why for home delivery do they shop in store) i ended up looking at the crowd of shoppers in front of me and i just popped my basket on the floor at the end and left and went to lldl. I didnt get as far as the till. Thus was january of this year. Havent plucked up the courage to return yet. The asdas are too big. Sadly i need to return soon. Might need a mn hand to hold.

Phoenix67 · 06/09/2015 17:56

Sorry I meant YANBU....

Purplepoodle · 06/09/2015 17:56

have done the same at scanner check out at tesco. Scanner failed at check out and they wanted me to unpack it all, put on a belt and repack (I was in late pregnancy and toddler ds was already screaming)

SladeGreen · 06/09/2015 17:58

This story does not surprise me in the least. Asda are shockingly bad for this sort of thing. They are ALWAYS understaffed, and I don't know about anywhere else, but in my local store whenever I approach the kiosk (or whatever you call "the ciggy bit"), there are always two members of staffing chatting away to each other, and even after I am standing RIGHT in the middle of them, they will continue to yack away until they've decided one of them had better actually do some f*cking work, and acknowledge me. It happens a lot and I find it so rude and unpleasant.

I find Tesco can still have problems with their self service tills, but at least their staff are polite, friendly and very quick to help. That's just my experience anyway.

Wineandrosesagain · 06/09/2015 18:00

Hate Asda. One time I had a trolley full of shopping including loads of wine that was discounted eg 2 for £12 etc. The shopping was going through the till and I noticed that the discounts weren't coming off. Queried this and was told it all comes off at the end. Ok. Except it didn't. Cashier called over a supervisor who told me I had to pay the full price at the till then go to the customer service desk to get the discounts refunded (the desk with a long queue as there was only one person serving). WTAF? I told the supervisor that I thought she should go to the customer service desk and sort it out for me. That wasn't her job, apparently. So I left the shopping there and walked out of the store.

Just remembered another example of their crap service - after shopping one Saturday I took my mum and sister into Asda's cafe for some fish and chips. The server gave me three plates, one of which had much fewer chips than the other two. I queried this and she took the other two plates off my tray and proceeded to remove half of the chips on those plates and said "there you go, they all match now" accompanied by a belligerent stare. I said, "hang on a minute, you should add some to the third plate,not remove some"- she smiled and said "take it or leave it". Clearly I left it. I complained about her to the manager who apologised but didn't offer to do anything about it.

It must be 3 years since I have shopped in that crap store and I don't intend to ever go back.

Badders123 · 06/09/2015 18:09

Yanbu!
I loathe asda, to the point I refuse to go and do does the shop there.
I would love to order online every week but we can't afford it :(

LyndaNotLinda · 06/09/2015 18:13

When I worked at Sainsbury's I quite liked returned all the stuff that was in the wrong place :)

RealHuman · 06/09/2015 18:15

Lovely Asda as at the bottom of my page Grin

RealHuman · 06/09/2015 18:15

^ad

kali110 · 06/09/2015 18:18

No i would have waited. Simply after working in retail so longer i have a lot of patience for shops and staff. Where i worked you had the option of opting out of sundays, i don't know how many other companies this is true for.
People were always complaining we didn't have enough staff however people had enough of how exhausting the job was and how rude customers were. You can't always make people work certain days.
I do hate those self serve tills though so i try to avoid them as much as possible. The morrison ones especially.
I wouldn't have got pissed off at having to wait at the end of the queue though as those people had been waiting before me.
I also wouldn't want to go through all this only to have to go through it elsewhere in another shop.

elbowsdontsing2 · 06/09/2015 18:24

something similar happened to me but i had to wait because i needed the item(wine Grin) and they gave me a £2 credit note for the inconvience and an apology

notquitehuman · 06/09/2015 18:32

Good luck complaining to Asda. They once cancelled my Christmas shop on the 22nd of December without even telling me. I only noticed when I went to the website and there was a big 'cancelled' next to it. Customer service call centre is based in South Africa or somewhere similar and they do not give the smallest shit. They offered me a free delivery next time, haha.

Anyway, I rushed to the actual shops, did a panicked food shop, came back and the fucking Asda shop turned up anyway. I had to decline it, then wait a week for the 200 quid to go back on my account. Even thinking about that day makes my blood pressure rise! They never did reply to my complaint emails or tweets.

rembrandtsrockchick · 06/09/2015 18:36

I would rather eat my own leg than shop in ASDA.

SillyStuffBiting · 06/09/2015 18:37

I left a belt full of shopping just after ds2 was born. The cashier watched me put it all up then laughed and told me I'd have to go to another checkout as that one was too narrow for the trolley to get throughHmm

I just scooped the boys up and walked out.

chrome100 · 06/09/2015 18:39

Yes, the Morrison's self service tills are DIRE. I have worked out that the only way to get them to function is not to put anything in the carrier bag until you have paid.

FishWithABicycle · 06/09/2015 18:42

usual - I don't think that's a reason not to do as the op did. The person who had to put the shopping back would have been paid for their time and would have been doing something equally tedious had the op waited quietly.

Op ywnbu.

usual · 06/09/2015 18:42

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YoureAllABunchOfBastards · 06/09/2015 18:42

Has anyone ever left a restaurant due to slow/bad service?

Yes. We walked out of a hotel restaurant with the kids having waited for a table - earliest available 8.30pm, we turned up then and were kept waiting another 15 minutes, then ordered drinks which hadn't arrived after 15 minutes...by this point we thought bugger this, and got up and left. The drinks arrived as we reached the door.

The kids thought it was ace. We went to McDonalds instead.

DontOpenDeadInside · 06/09/2015 18:44

We have a small asda locally. On Friday I needed a few bits, milk, soup mix came to about £8 and i wanted cashback of £10. So did my shopping, got to self serve till (all are self serve) scanned my items, put card in, chose cashback option entered PIN...then nothing. Stood waiting a minute or so when the self serve staff came over and told me all the card machines are down so its cash only. Well I had no cash on me so I had to run to the post office, which of course was unusually busy due to everyone having the same idea, and only one server one (another was pottering around the back, but didn't come on) 20 minutes later i had to go get my shopping which she had suspended, so i had to wait in another queue to get my shopping. A 5 minute trip turned into over 30 minutes.

Now had they had someone (the security guard was sitting there just watching a screen) at the entrance,or even a sign advising it was cash only, I could have went straight to post office and shaved 20 minutes or so off my time. Grrr

magoria · 06/09/2015 18:48

I don't think you were unreasonable to leave it all as you needed to be elsewhere. However everyone else in that queue had already been queueing and may have needed to be somewhere also.

Why should you have priority over those already queueing?

NadiaWadia · 06/09/2015 18:56

Because she had already done her 'queueing' at the self-service till, which should have worked properly and accepted her card? And because the previous member of staff dealing with her had told her she wouldn't have to queue?

Gunpowder · 06/09/2015 19:10

YANBU OP.

The staff in my local Asda are lovely. Although one said to me once at the checkout: 'I can smell you.' I was absolutely mortified, and a bit surprised as I'd just had a shower. It turned out she meant my perfume and she thought it was nice. Grin I only ever wear half a spray now, though.