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WIBU to dump my shopping and walk out of Asda?

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wannabetennisplayer · 06/09/2015 16:29

Today I went to Asda for a shop - running later than planned due to a bus not turning up (which admittedly I can't blame Asda for!) - but still with enough time to do a shop. Long queues at the checkout. I am directed to a self-service till which turns out to be even more temperamental than usual (even if you remove all the scanned items, apparently thin air is an "unexpected item in bagging area") so I have to call for help a few times - and, as usual, there are only one or two poor sods on self-service till duty running around like blue-arsed
flies - and on one of the occasions my till was playing up there were no staff anywhere in the self-service till area (which I would estimate has about 20 - 24 tills) for several minutes. Not blaming them as it is obviously the supermarket who understaffs the tills.

Once I've scanned my items, I try to pay with my card but it doesn't seem to be working. One of the members of staff comes over and tries it a couple of times and then says 'oh, yeah, I think the card reader wasn't working on this one'. Now, if at this point, he had said 'this is the start of a long process to make a card payment', I would have asked him to cancel a couple of items off the bill and just bought what I had the cash for but, he just said 'come with me to make the payment'.

He takes me to the customer service point (again with a long queue) and gives a print out from the self-service till to the woman at the counter. I ask if I'll be expected to queue up again and/or everything will need to be scanned again and he says 'no, just wait next to the counter and she'll take the payment after she's finished dealing with the current customer - and it doesn't need to be scanned again as she's got this slip.' He leaves and then the customer service woman tells me to get to the back of the queue. I explain the situation and that I have already queued up etc but she says that I have to go to the back of the queue. As it's the customer service point, everyone is complaining about faulty electrical items, wanting to exchange items etc so none of them are going to be quick transactions.

As time is ticking on, my options are either to continue to wait in this queue and not make a gym class that I intended to attend later that day or to give up on the shopping - so in the end I emptied the shopping on the customer service counter, told the member of staff that I didn't have time and walked out. Slightly more dramatic than I intended but the bags were mine so I had to empty the contents onto the counter if I was going to leave!

What would you have done?

OP posts:
ceyes03 · 06/09/2015 17:05

In the days before taking your own bags was much of a thing, I left my shopping on the conveyerbelt at Tesco once when they had absolutely no carrier bags. I think they expected people to levitate their shopping home.

BabyGanoush · 06/09/2015 17:06

You have more patience than me

I have said "oh, forget about this" and left supermarkets to never come back (Sainsbury and Tesco), Lidl has always been fine. Oddly?

Youarentkiddingme · 06/09/2015 17:09

I'd like to think I'd have done the same but truth be told I'm a wuss Grin

Good on you for voting with your feet.

MrsBertMacklin · 06/09/2015 17:13

Has anyone ever left a restaurant due to slow/bad service?

TreeSparrow · 06/09/2015 17:16

Absolutely would have done the same.

madamginger · 06/09/2015 17:16

I left a full shop at our local asda after they accused me of fraud when using a coupon I'd printed off the internet. They have terrible customer service, our local Tesco is much better

WhoTheFuckIsSimon · 06/09/2015 17:19

I left a £90 Morrison shop when they refused to flog me wine. I was 37yo, had a 11yo dd with me but couldn't prove my age.

Ive also left a bag of shopping at morrisons self service till when it had a melt down and no one came to help.

NadiaWadia · 06/09/2015 17:20

I would have done the same. I hate self-service tills, at least 50% of the time something goes wrong and you have to get assistance anyway. And it makes me flustered. I might brave it if I only had 2-3 items.

Queueing up for a manned till at Asda once, they had an assistant going up to everyone asking them if they'd like to use the self-service. I refused. They are taking away jobs for shop assistants, too.

I think it's part of a trend towards automation. It's similar to when you go on a company/organisation website, you search through it, but realise you need to speak to someone. They make it as hard as possible to find the number, and when you do get through it is all an automated menu of options with recorded messages which waste your time. it is ages before you can speak to a human, if at all.

Customer services get worse and worse, front line jobs are reduced (more unemployment) but the companies don't care because they think they'll make more profit. Not if people vote with their feet, like the OP though, good for you!

eatingworms · 06/09/2015 17:21

Definitely would have done the same. Would have beenfuming at the woman who made you go to the back of the queue again. I'd have kicked up a fuss I suspect.

Fuckitfay · 06/09/2015 17:22

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HermioneWeasley · 06/09/2015 17:25

I'd have done the same - bonkers approach.

Isn't it amazing how hard some places make it to spend money?

BarbarianMum · 06/09/2015 17:26

I would have done the same. Or maybe demanded to speak to the manager, if I was feeling properly peeved.

LoveChickens · 06/09/2015 17:29

Would have done exactly the same.

VinylScratch · 06/09/2015 17:30

Has anyone ever left a restaurant due to slow/bad service?

I walked out of a restaurant once when they ignored us for ages waiting to be seated and then tried to sit us at an uncleared table with someone else's old plates and scrunched up napkins all over it Hmm. I thought if that was their standard of cleanliness I wasn't going to risk actually eating there.

DriverSurpriseMe · 06/09/2015 17:30

Some poor sod is going to have to put all that shopping back on the shelves

So?

I worked for Sainsburys when I was a student, and returning items to the shelves (either abandoned at the checkouts or handed to the cashiers because the customer changed their mind/didn't have enough money) was a totally normal part of the working day. It's hardly as if the OP had a trolley's worth.

TreeSparrow · 06/09/2015 17:31

Sharing your experience on social media, e.g. Twitter, normally prompts a quick response from the store. I do this frequently to give feedback on bad service and it does address issues quicker than private letters/emails.

TheoriginalLEM · 06/09/2015 17:34

I would have done much the same, wtf didn't the guy take your payment when she had finished? get to the back of the queue?? fuck. off!!!

TheoriginalLEM · 06/09/2015 17:37

atrocious customer servicein our local tesco but they keep staff down to a minimum so they are all stressed out. Aldi actually pay their staff really well and we always get service with a smile even though we are trying to catch our food as its scanned at record speed but honestly, speed is good. Efficent, speed. Thats what we want!

Mandatorymongoose · 06/09/2015 17:38

I walked out of somewhere once, think it was Bella Italia maybe? They seated us and then ignored us for 20 minutes, no menus, no drinks orders, just like we weren't there so we left.

KingJoffreyLikesJaffaCakes · 06/09/2015 17:38

YABU to go into ASDA. They're notoriously shite and crap with their customers.

ASDA staff were used at Dismaland due to them being pros at apathy and unhelpfulness.

But I also like your style.

MaidOfStars · 06/09/2015 17:40

MrsBert Husband and I have walked out of a restaurant, after one too many 'Five more minutes' (I got through a bottle of wine in five minute intervals!). The manager was shouting at us on the way out, but my normally mild-mannered husband decided that it was time to bite....T'was brilliant, and included a defence of me and my need to eat after a bottle of wine swoon

Oakmaiden · 06/09/2015 17:40

I hat self service tills anyway - they just help companies employ fewer people. How that is good for anyone (other than shareholders) I don't know.

Doublebubblebubble · 06/09/2015 17:41

mrsbert I have. Granted it was a pizza hut so not a classy, swanky restaurant. But it got to a point of absolute ridiculousness and it wasn't particularly busy I am normally quite patient with wait staff as when I was in college waitressing was one of my many hats waiting about 1 1/2 hours for a pizza - of course we ate the salad that they attempted to make me and dh pay for.

Sallyhasleftthebuilding · 06/09/2015 17:42

I used a scanner in Tesco .. kids running round and they were helping. We were stopped and checked and one can of soup hadnt scanned. I was accused of theft. Had i put the stuff on a belt, and the cashier missed an item it wouldnt have been an issue. I dont use those now because its too easily missed, and I didnt like the accusation and tutting.

PowderMum · 06/09/2015 17:42

I use the self service checkouts on average 3 times a week, I have NEVER managed to do the whole procedure without an incident. I know how to work them and what they SHOULD do but they just don't. Our Tesco had 6 usually no more than 4 worked at a time and they had 1 member of staff running around trying to keep them going. As an improvement we now have 10 but still only 1 member of staff, so the queues are just as long.

I have to admit to using short cuts especially when they won't recognise an item in the bloody bagging area. With the 4 for £1 rolls I use the first one that comes up, I am not faffing around trying to find where they have hidden the seeded rolls again. When I get the item not recognised I always add a second item to see if that clears it.

I too would have walked out. I am good at complaining much to my DC distress (they are teenagers), but I can't see why multinationals should get away with crap customer service.

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