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To complain about something trivial that is prevalent just now at this time of year?

117 replies

Salmotrutta · 06/09/2015 09:22

The use of the word "Uni" as opposed to University.

It really bugs me.

It started around the time the first Australian soaps were shown back in the early 1980s (Neighbours etc.) because they use that term in Australia - apparently.

Nobody ever referred to it as "Uni" before that in the UK - it just annoys me and I always say University because Uni sounds daft.

Just my opinion of course.

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multivac · 06/09/2015 11:49

"Surely college is the one between school and uni? "

College is quite a general term; it doesn't refer to a specific educational stage. You're thinking, for example, of a 'sixth form college' - but many people complete KS5 in the same secondary where they completed KS3 and 4.

It can also refer to distinct institutions which, together, make up a university.

With regards to the OP, 'uni' is on the list of arbitrary abbreviations that make my teeth itch, too, along with 'preggers' and 'soccer'. No real rhyme or reason to it.

whattheseithakasmean · 06/09/2015 11:56

Do you prefer to say 'Varsity' cos you is posh?

I was at Uni in the 80s and I remember a posho London friend saying I shouldn't use the term 'Uni' as it sounded exclusive so he always said College. Fair dos, thanks for the lecture, oh privately educated man, just what this comprehensive educated local girl needed.

Egosumquisum · 06/09/2015 12:01

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MrsHathaway · 06/09/2015 12:02

Oh dear.

I've heard it said that if you call it "uni" then it won't be one of the prestigious ones. In my limited experience that does hold true - Oxbridge is "college" as are UCL, IC, etc, Edinburgh etc are "university" and if someone says her DD has just gone to "uni" then it will be somewhere obscure doing Applied Photocopying.

Is it a first generation thing too?

Blush Huh. Turns out I'm horribly prejudiced and a crashing snob.

whattheseithakasmean · 06/09/2015 12:05

Well, the Uni I was at in the 80s (see story above about patronising London posh boy) was Edinburgh, so that doesn't really fit your snobby theory MrsHathaway

Trills · 06/09/2015 12:09

I've heard it said that if you call it "uni" then it won't be one of the prestigious ones.

Not true in my experience.

Trills · 06/09/2015 12:11

When I was at Cambridge we only said "college" if we were specifically referring to something that related to the college

e.g. "I've got to go to college to pick up my post"

"Your college does better cooked breakfasts than mine"

The institution as a whole was "university", or "uni" (fairly interchangeably)

e.g. "I'm going back to uni on the 3rd"

SoupDragon · 06/09/2015 12:22

YANBU to complain about whatever you want.

It doesn't make you right though...

PHANTOMnamechanger · 06/09/2015 12:28

well I went to a RG university in 1988 and it was called a uni then, polys have always been called polys and my dad went to 'the tech' in the 50s.

Language always develops and adapts. Selfies and onesies were not a thing then!
When more people actually start using a word, it is bound to get abbreviated, and as more and more people catch on and use the abbreviation, it becomes the norm and replaces the full word in common everyday situations. For example, I don't know anyone except my aged nan who refers to 'photographs' or 'telephones'....and she still calls a radio 'the wireless' too!

GudrunBrangwen · 06/09/2015 12:35

We have Sainsbourg. I suppose it's a contraction of Serge and Gainsbourg, but it still sounds relatively genteel Smile

Salmotrutta · 06/09/2015 12:38

My parents call the radio the "wireless" too!

They're in their 80s but they do say phone and TV etc.

Soup - I know it doesn't make me right Grin

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RedEllen · 06/09/2015 12:39

and she still calls a radio 'the wireless' too! I love the word wireless for radio - always conjures up an image like this

To complain about something trivial that is prevalent just now at this time of year?
Salmotrutta · 06/09/2015 12:45

Great picture RedEllen - that's how I see a wireless in my head.

In fact my parents had an amazing wooden wireless set when I was very young - I used to peer into it through the grill to see the valves which fascinated me Confused

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jeronimoh · 06/09/2015 12:54

'Tell my, young lady, what do you intend to read at University?'

Viz was a popular choice in the 80's.

RedEllen · 06/09/2015 12:57

Yeah, my gran had one like that. I was not allowed to touch it. Grin

LindyHemming · 06/09/2015 13:00

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SchnooSchnoo · 06/09/2015 13:09

YANBU. I'm a student at the moment. I hate the word uni. But now, because of the abbreviation, 'university' sounds ridiculously long and makes you sound like a dick too! I have tried saying 'college', but when I explain I'm doing an MA at UCL that's not what people expect! It's a minefield. When I talk to dd about it, I just call it school Grin

BestIsWest · 06/09/2015 13:16

I went to a Poly but everyone I knew said 'college' whether they were going to university or polytechnic. Early 80's. You 'went away to college'.

No one went to the local university either in those days. I suppose it was the grants.

prettybird · 07/09/2015 16:17

I'm sure I called it Uni when I went, in Scotland, before the days of Neighbours etc.

But since it's over 30 years since I graduated, maybe my memory is going Wink

Witchend · 07/09/2015 16:20

That's interesting because I have a postcard dm received saying "good luck at uni", I think she matriculated in 1964.

TheGirlOnTheLanding · 07/09/2015 16:39

Could it be a West of Scotland thing Prettybird? We definitely called it Uni when I went, pre Neighbours.

derxa · 07/09/2015 16:51

I think it is a West of Scotland thing but it doesn't stop my West of Scotland teeth itching.

Dawndonnaagain · 07/09/2015 16:54

It was known as Uni back in the sixties and seventies.

Stillwishihadabs · 07/09/2015 17:04

I definately went to College or even (medical) school in the '90's and some friends "read" history at Manchester or PPE at Oxford.

prettybird · 07/09/2015 17:29

Don't know if it's a West of Scotland thing - I went to St Andrews Uni Wink and read Wink French/Economics - although initially I went up Wink to do French/Russian.

Dh always reminds me that he didn't go to Glasgow University - he went to *The University, comma, Glasgow" Grin