I'm 36 and have 2 DCs
I really want another DC am trying to conceive. Just got my period today unfortunately.
I'm getting a bit concerned as I was hoping to have my DCs close in age but now because of several miscarriages there will be at least 4 and a half years between my youngest and the baby (if I ever have one)
My older DCs are close in age and I feel the new baby will be left out. They have grown up together and go places together and love the same things.
I was thinking today that if i do get pregnant again and actually have a baby then I should straight away try for a final fourth one - as it would be nice to raise two close in age
I think I'm getting a bit panicked about time passing as I never intended to leave a big gap and I was hoping to have all the DCs when I was a bit younger.
If I had 4 DCs we would have to cut what we are spending. We have cut back hugely since having DCs but might have to sacrifice holidays and just stay with relations etc - it might be worth it?
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theWomenInTheWoods · 23/08/2015 20:08
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