To want to go NC with my sister because she is friends with EX-H?

[LittleSnaily]

I don't understand it - my lovely sister is still seeing my exH five years after we've separated. We separated for lots of reasons triggered by his affair, which she supported me through.

I've told her how I feel. She says I need to be less bitter and she still wants to see him and my dcs. I've said of course she can see my dcs whenever she likes!

This weekend she and her family are meeting EX-H and my dcs and it really upsets me. She hasn't been to visit me for months.

Should I grow up? I feel so upset about it and I don't want to see her any more. :(

Yanbu. It sounds like he wants to get at you. If you don't rise to it he will probably drop her, so I'd not say any more, leave them to it. She really should get her priorities loyalties straight though,

Or she wants to get to her