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to think they should not have been allowed back in?

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FujimotosElixir · 30/07/2015 08:50

I went to a softplay with my 2 children , one 5 and one 2 and my friend with her child a bit older. I had to take my eldest to the toilet. When I arrived back my toddler was sat on friends knee and friends kid ran to me saying 'someone's been hurting ds2' I initially assumed it was scrapping as DS 2 is a bruiser. It was much worse than I thought Sad it turns out in the soft rolling pins a group of lads at least 10,11 had been hitting him, pushing him,kicking him and when he got back up again tripped him up again and again,Angry a woman saw this as he'd gotten split up from friends kid (big place) and told the boys and got him out of there my friend had just come looking for him and came across it. I was shook up at the age difference, malice involved , told staff and they found the parents etc the mum just said "sorry I'll tell them' it was an extended family group so I didn't expect then to kick them all out but I saw them back in 2 mins later. ShockShockAngry we soon left as it was not acceptable IMO. AIBU to think should have been told not to go back and dealt with some severity as it wasn't a minor incident? I was too stunned to kick up a fuss tbh now I'm angry.

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zazzie · 31/07/2015 08:48

Height does come into it as there is usually a height limit and 5ft 8 in would be way over it.
Without cctv or visible signs such as bruises, I don't think you will get anywhere with this. It will be the boys word against the woman's.

FujimotosElixir · 31/07/2015 09:07

Hi yes no injuries no CCTV, if there had been injuries I would have definitely done police. I think the like posters said just avoid in future, this a shame though.

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Gileswithachainsaw · 31/07/2015 09:43

I hope your ds is feeling better today Flowers

FujimotosElixir · 02/08/2015 20:53

Thank you Giles!

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RachelRagged · 03/08/2015 12:02

OP YANBU

Long time ago now since I went Soft Play with mine but more than once one would slip through to the bigger section , soon got retrieved. The Boys, if over 10, can indeed be arrested , ,perhaps cautioned rather than charged, but whatever , not your problem if you decide to call Police, its theirs.

Good idea to ask to check the CCTV and go from there . Poor DS , hope he is alright now.

Incidentally, if those older ones had been mine, they would have apologised, I would have bought your DS a drink and words would be had once home .

RachelRagged · 03/08/2015 12:04

Oh sorry just seen , ,No CCTV

OrangeVase · 03/08/2015 12:59

As everyone says, unless you actually saw what happened it is difficult to be sure.

I suspect as others say upthread that it was more a case of bigger kids running and pushing and the little one got caught in the cross-fire. They do tend to be rough and tumble places. (Isn't that the point of them?).

If your child is fine now I'd leave it. If you do want to take it further you will need CCTV evidence - the place may be willing to let you see it if you make a formal complaint.

OrangeVase · 03/08/2015 13:00

sorry - slow typist! No cctv

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