to think dh shouldn't be saying things like this to dd?

[PigletCrisps]

she is only 8
he will say allsorts of judgemental stuff to her, for example at the weekend there was a man walking through town

he had a long cape type coat on, half blonde hair half black
and huge sunglasses

people were looking at him as he power walked along

dh turns to dd and says well dd thatis what is known as a weirdo....
wtf

I tried to explain about not judging books by their covers etc
but I can see his is inflicting his thoughts into her mind

she replied I thought he was a magician in fancy dress returning from a childrens party, where no one liked him[because he had a sad look on his face]

I personally want her to live and let live
not judge etc

other examples are when I was watching towie
I know its shit etc but comeon
he said well dd this a programme for thick people

it had just finished when they arrived home so she wasn't exposed to it

lots of other comments like dummys are just for shutting up babies etc
which she then repeats in front of others and I cringe

[WorraLiberty]

You should tell him to make a Mumsnet account OP

I can think of a million threads where his opinions would be totally welcomed and agreed with

[Babycham1979]

OP, I've just read your thread about being 18 months older than him. It sounds like you really don't like this man (and he doesn't think much of you either). Why are you together? Why did you get together in the first place?

You keep insisting that you're not offended or upset, but your repeated posting on multiple relationship problems suggest you are.

Two people, living together, with a child who really don't like each other; maybe time you both a serious chat?

[BreadmakerFan]

Boggles that someone having gay sex and dealing and doing drugs can impress an adult.