I'm 11 weeks pregnant, when me and dp found out it was a shock, once this had worn off a little we decided only to tell both mums. We would tell the rest of the family after the first scan- which is not due for another week and a half!
4 weeks later....
He goes to visit his mum for the day and also to see his sister. Before he went I asked him not to tell his sister as discussed and he agreed. He comes back and says he has told his sister. Because his mum said she had no one to talk to about it.
I am utterly pissed off with this- my mum also has no one to talk to regarding this and is also super excited, but she has not asked me to tell any of my siblings.
Also we are getting married in a few months, again only both mums knew as they are the witnesses at local registry office, and he tells his sister this as well.
It feels awkward and odd that one sibling must know and not the others and now I feel obliged to tell my siblings.
Dp attitude I'll deal with my family and you deal with yours- WTF?! I cannot believe that any man would think like this.
Oooooh so I told him that I would tell his family as he had no regard for my feelings or what we had discussed ( I know this is petty)
Someone slap me!