To ask you about your idea of sex?

[IUseAnyName]

I'm not asking about your sex life but more how you view sex.

Can you take it or leave it, do you have to be in the mood, can you not get enough of it?

I only ask because my dh has a high sex drive, I think I do but not sure. Most of the time I can't be arsed, or I'm not bothered, but force myself in to it as I know I'll enjoy it and get in to it, which I normally do I it always leave me wanting more.
But is it normal to not be bothered about it until you're in the throes?

IUD - copper coil. No hormones, long acting contraceptive.

I'm not interested in it at all

I was badly damaged giving birth to DD, and the trauma left me with PTSD. DD is 4.5 and I can count on the fingers of 2 hands how often we've been able to have sex since she arrived. I'm still in the process of being repaired physically, and have had some counselling to deal with the PTSD (need more though) - my subconscious is so concerned about another pregnancy and birth trauma that avoiding the thing that leads to it is priority number one. My sex drive is zero. Coupled with DH being a lazy bastard around the house doesn't exactly make me want to "reward" him.