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To ask what is the most extravagant "teacher present" you have given/received/heard of

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LadyMaryofDownton · 18/06/2015 22:39

I was scrolling through my FB feed an a teacher friend of mine has received a Prada handbag with matching purse!

It got me wondering if the good old picture frame/personalised gift things aren't the done thing anymore?

I didn't/don't plan on spending more than I usually do but I am curious.

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Starlightbright1 · 19/06/2015 06:43

The one gift that made my DS teacher cry was a handwritten letter as he had initially refused to write a word and writing anything was always an issue for him. only on mumsnet do I her of lavish gifts

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namelessposter · 19/06/2015 07:14

The school my children were at previously had a recommended contribution PER CHILD of £100 for the teacher end of term gift. So 20 in the class = £2k for their teacher. My chin hit the floor the first time I was asked. I refused. We asked again several times, as it was clearly thought IWBU. My children don't go there anymore. Horrible show-offy American banker parents.

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LavenderRain · 19/06/2015 07:24

My friend is a teacher, she once received a very large joint of beef, uncooked, from a pupil at primary school Grin
Dad was a butcher apparently! It must have been worth £££££'s tho.

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Idontseeanydragons · 19/06/2015 07:35

Our old head banned anything other than token presents a while back and the new head kept the rule - flowers, wine and chocolates are fine but there are no collections here.
We once bought each of the teachers a biscuit with their names iced on, DD's teacher said to me at pick up time 'thank you for the biscuits, we ran out of ours yesterday' GrinGrin

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chocolateyay · 19/06/2015 07:37

Nameless... I think we may have been at the same school!

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TheHappyCamper · 19/06/2015 07:39

Lavender I would love that joint of beef! Grin

I have never been given anything more than a token gift - wine, chocolates, notebooks etc. All very gratefully received and most made me cry. I'm secondary so it can be rarer to get anything. I certainly never expect anything. The best is when parents email the head to say nice things about my teaching Smile

We usually give wine/chocs to DD's primary teachers but I think it is the card with nice thank you inside that is most appreciated.

I haven't heard of anyone I know getting anything remotely extravagant!

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Greenteandchives · 19/06/2015 07:45

My DS teaches at a public school where a lot of the pupils are Russian. I am Shock at what she receives. Much Louis Vuitton. I am Envy as I am NHS and we quite rightly aren't allowed to receive gifts.

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BikeRunSki · 19/06/2015 07:48

Local village school. Not an especially affluent area. Build a Bear toy of the teacher's favourite animal with recorded message from child.

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ZaZathecat · 19/06/2015 07:56

A normal state run infants school: one parent in ds' s class organised a collection for a flying lesson for the teacher. This was for Christmas, not even end of year. I declined as I thought it was way over the top.

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WyrdByrd · 19/06/2015 08:16

We did a Build a Bear one year, and I made it a school uniform...however the teacher in question had had DD's class 2 years running so didn't think it was too OTT in the circs.

Generally I try & get something a bit personal for under a tenner - one teacher got a tin case of plectrums with her favourite band on as she was learning to play the guitar.

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LadyMaryofDownton · 19/06/2015 08:22

Oh some of these are lovely, the build a bear; that's original & so cute!

Lol @ a horse Wink

Am thinking Yankee Candle & a card that's my usual. Lovely to see the teachers really appreciating the small personal things to.

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ChristmasZombie · 19/06/2015 08:51

I teach in a private school and I've received some really lovely gifts. Nothing comparable to a Prada handbag, though! The usual is fancy chocolates or toiletries, nice costume jewellery, and always several bunches of flowers.
I think the most extravagant gift I've had was a big L'Occitane gift set. When I opened it up, alongside the posh smellies, a large bottle of Angel perfume had been crammed in! That gift probably had a value of around £100. They are a particularly generous family.
One family bought me three boxes of Pregnacare Plus at christmas last year!

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WyrdByrd · 19/06/2015 09:06

I hope you were pregnant at the time Zombie Shock Grin!

DD's teacher seemed to appreciate her Build a Bear...although I have a sneaky suspicion it may have eventually ended up in the arms of her then 1yo niece, but no matter, so long as someone is giving it lots of cuddles Smile.

Need to get my thinking cap on for this year as not only does DD think the world of her teacher, she is also a friend of DH's...will probably be nice stationery or something music related as she plays the ukulele. I've also just remembered her mentioning chocolate flavoured beer!

Last year DD had a lovely TA and also the Head and Deputy both left - I did them each a bag containing homemade scones, clotted cream, mini pots of strawberry and raspberry jam and a can of Pimms - added a book token to the Head's bag - they seemed to go down well.

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WhatKatyDidnt · 19/06/2015 09:11

Friend of a friend was given a cashmere dressing gown Confused

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ChanandlerBongsNeighbour · 19/06/2015 09:22

When I left for my first mat leave I got the most beautiful gift box full of next baby bits from a family whose children had all been through my class over the years (2 babygros, 2 bibs, furry snowsuit, rattles and a lovely card) I was SO touched. Same pregnancy I also got a wholesale tray of free mangoes off a parent, she told me it was tradition in her country and the mangoes were good for the baby! I thought that was brilliant! My oldest DC started school in Sept so I shall I have to think of a nice (inexpensive) gift for the teacher (probably something handmade!).

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