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These bloody Benefits Street and Benefits Britain programmes are just nasty judgemental propaganda.

119 replies

GratefulHead · 28/05/2015 19:49

Following another thread I made the mistake of watching Benefits Britain.....or at least as much as I could stand before turning it off.

We met a large family with 14 kids....yep....huge family but one of very few such families nationally.

The voiceover says that the programme makers worked out the family's benefits at £70k per annum. And added "two of the children have disabilities so that means they can also claim Carers Allowance" as if that was such a crime ffs. They live in an 8 bedroom "benefits house" apparently and the cameraman was careful to ensure they got all the things like flat screens, games consoles etc into shot.

Then there was Sarah from Essex, a woman unemployed and probably unemployable. She is divorcing and planning to marry her new boyfriend she has known all of two weeks.(does she sound stable and employable to you?). She lives in a "benefits house" with her two adult children who the programme makers couldn't wait to tell us had never worked. From the short bit I saw of Sarah she came across as Dysfuntional ...and yes I did mean to put in a capital D! I would put money on her having had a crappy life right from birth with poor parenting which she has repeated with her own kids. I've seen other similar families....in all cases the families were know. To social services from when the parents were small children the,selves.

The last one was a 60 year old man who has been unable to work for the last two years due to degenerative arthritis of the spine, he walks with a frame and lives in a "benefits flat". But hey...who cares if he walks with a farm and is in constant pain as long as you get that footage of him playing his XBox eh? Judgemental and nasty.

I just wanted to scream FUCK OFF very five mins at the screen. Wtf IS a "benefits house"? Am I in a "benefits house" because it's social housing and I claim housing benefit (and Carers Allowance too), or if I pay my own rent does it cease to be "a benefits house" Is the private let a "benefits house" of the tenant claims housing benefit?

Seriously....these programmes are awful.....and I was so angry at the comment about Carers Allowance as they made it sound almost an "extra perk" for the family with 14 kids. Do you know what it's like to support a child with autism or ADHD or anything else which is severe enough to warrant middle rate care for DLA? It's bloody exhausting and non-stop, if my DS doesn't sleep then neither do I ....and its a regular occurrence too. How dare anyone think it is some kind of fucking perk. Live my bloody life for a week and then see if you still think it's a good deal! This week has been very difficult as its half term and my son has been full on in his tics and activity levels...day AND night!

These programmes just turn people against the most vulnerable....and they managed to pick three families with circumstances which were frankly not usual. Most families on benefits DONT have 14 kids (would like to see the stats for how many families nationally are both that large and on benefits), most families on benefits are far more stable and functional than Sarah from Essex whose new boyfriend was a homeless Polish man she met on the steps of her local Morrisons.
The poor man with the severe spine problem was almost flagged up as "deserving"...until the filmmaker spotted his XBox I assume.

Horrible and judgemental, I won't be watching any more of them. They need taking off air.

OP posts:
UnspecialSnowflake · 28/05/2015 21:18

IMO they're worse than Victorian freak shows. In Victorian freak shows the "freaks" knew what they were getting into, got paid a decent wage and weren't set up as targets of hate.

Babyroobs · 28/05/2015 21:26

These programmes are awful . However I disagree about there only being a few of these large families. On just one newly built housing estate nearby to where I live there are at least six or seven very large families with 6/7/8 kids, maybe not 14 like in the programme, but still large families with the teenage kids starting to have kids themselves and no-one working. It's depressing.

IonaNE · 28/05/2015 21:39

I suspect that in countries with no benefit system the people who in Britain are "unemployable" - work.

maroonedwithfour · 28/05/2015 21:41

The large family also made out two of them were needed at home due to disability. The dad dashed up to school to give hus 17 year old meds... The young man needs to manage his condidtion himself.

maroonedwithfour · 28/05/2015 21:44

Also many many a sahp dashes to school with a baby or toddler in tow to deal with emergencies. They don't need two parents at home all day.

Whiskwarrior · 28/05/2015 21:45

OP, I understand your anger and despair. I don't think it's quite as simple as 'don't watch then'. I don't watch them. Am I not allowed to feel angry about them?

And already there is cuntish behaviour on this thread about people on benefits so the propaganda is obviously working (on people who are as thick as the mince in those tins).

maroonedwithfour · 28/05/2015 21:47

Sarah clearly wasn't quite right.

Foreverlurking · 28/05/2015 21:47

Or iona they beg, steal, live in real poverty, are made to work in slave-like conditions, sent to 'madhouses' (for those with moderate to severe learning difficulties), become homeless, involved in organised crime, die..

Anything to keep the scroungers' mitts off our flat-screens, though yeah?

BishopBrennansArse · 28/05/2015 21:47

Oh right marooned. Because you'Re the world's leading authority on that boy's disability?

Hope the bullshit propaganda tasted good because you swallowed the whole lot - hook, line and sinker.

maroonedwithfour · 28/05/2015 21:49

And already there is cuntish behaviour on this thread about people on benefits so the propaganda is obviously working (on people who are as thick as the mince in those tins).

Ahem, such a good counter argument. As you were.

maroonedwithfour · 28/05/2015 21:50

As above Bishop^^^

BishopBrennansArse · 28/05/2015 21:50

I suppose you'd think the likes ofOur family are 'lazy bastards' too then marooned?
Unable to work due to 3 disabled kids.

maroonedwithfour · 28/05/2015 21:51

I never called anyone a lazy bastard. Shock

Stitchintime1 · 28/05/2015 21:53

They're awful. I saw some one the other week. Benefits b the Sea or some such. Awful. The camera lingering on tattoos, beer cans, leopard skin wallpaper. Horrible programme. Sometimes though you are channel hopping and you just pause and then you find yourself caught up in it. A sort of rubber necking.

BishopBrennansArse · 28/05/2015 21:53

People wonder why I get so fucking angry and won't watch this shit. Because it actively makes my life harder that's why!

Sunsoo · 28/05/2015 21:54

I think they should get Katie Hopkins to narrate these shows.

gamerchick · 28/05/2015 21:56

I watch them. You can gauge how close a new wave of cuts are by how severe the editing.

Last nights upset me.. That poor bugger being taken for a cunt by her polish dude. All she wants is some proper love and that's how high her bar is set. I'll bet the producers were creaming their jeans at the row of knickers drying behind her for a chunk of it.

AnyRailway · 28/05/2015 22:06

Yes yes to the knickers drying behind her - and I didn't even see the programme!

Stuff like that looks tacky and slatternly. However, I live in a small house (on benefits, for good reasons which I will not even try to defend here). When visitors come round, I often have washing on the radiators and other stuff around that I would clear away if I had space.

It's just one tiny, almost subconscious detail which encourages the judging.

Lucyccfc · 28/05/2015 22:13

Never watched any of these programmes and can never understand why people would go on these programmes and put themselves in front of the public for complete ridicule.

If people didn't agree to go on them, there would be no programme to produce. Surely people must know that they are not going to be shown in a great light and the programme producers will just exploit their situation.

AuntyMag10 · 28/05/2015 22:17

IonaNE has it right.

YouPooPooBumBum · 28/05/2015 22:18

YANBU EnvyI hate these programmes, people sit in their houses eating nice food, safe in the knowledge they have family to help out if they needed it, money in the bank and that don't struggle to walk 100 metres, suffer from depression or look after a child who will never be able to look after his/herself.
I cant stand the fb updates "look at the size of the tele" or the mindless comments "they need to get a job"

Whiskwarrior · 28/05/2015 22:21

Interesting, marooned, how I just mentioned cuntish behaviour and you felt the need to pick that up. I mentioned no names.

If the cap fits though, eh?

DosDuchas · 28/05/2015 22:22

yabu

YouPooPooBumBum · 28/05/2015 22:22

*people sit in their houses watching this shit on tv

ChilliAndMint · 28/05/2015 22:51

Yes they are, however I do have neighbours who think the world owes them a living.
Sometimes the lack of work ethic runs very deep.