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These bloody Benefits Street and Benefits Britain programmes are just nasty judgemental propaganda.

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GratefulHead · 28/05/2015 19:49

Following another thread I made the mistake of watching Benefits Britain.....or at least as much as I could stand before turning it off.

We met a large family with 14 kids....yep....huge family but one of very few such families nationally.

The voiceover says that the programme makers worked out the family's benefits at £70k per annum. And added "two of the children have disabilities so that means they can also claim Carers Allowance" as if that was such a crime ffs. They live in an 8 bedroom "benefits house" apparently and the cameraman was careful to ensure they got all the things like flat screens, games consoles etc into shot.

Then there was Sarah from Essex, a woman unemployed and probably unemployable. She is divorcing and planning to marry her new boyfriend she has known all of two weeks.(does she sound stable and employable to you?). She lives in a "benefits house" with her two adult children who the programme makers couldn't wait to tell us had never worked. From the short bit I saw of Sarah she came across as Dysfuntional ...and yes I did mean to put in a capital D! I would put money on her having had a crappy life right from birth with poor parenting which she has repeated with her own kids. I've seen other similar families....in all cases the families were know. To social services from when the parents were small children the,selves.

The last one was a 60 year old man who has been unable to work for the last two years due to degenerative arthritis of the spine, he walks with a frame and lives in a "benefits flat". But hey...who cares if he walks with a farm and is in constant pain as long as you get that footage of him playing his XBox eh? Judgemental and nasty.

I just wanted to scream FUCK OFF very five mins at the screen. Wtf IS a "benefits house"? Am I in a "benefits house" because it's social housing and I claim housing benefit (and Carers Allowance too), or if I pay my own rent does it cease to be "a benefits house" Is the private let a "benefits house" of the tenant claims housing benefit?

Seriously....these programmes are awful.....and I was so angry at the comment about Carers Allowance as they made it sound almost an "extra perk" for the family with 14 kids. Do you know what it's like to support a child with autism or ADHD or anything else which is severe enough to warrant middle rate care for DLA? It's bloody exhausting and non-stop, if my DS doesn't sleep then neither do I ....and its a regular occurrence too. How dare anyone think it is some kind of fucking perk. Live my bloody life for a week and then see if you still think it's a good deal! This week has been very difficult as its half term and my son has been full on in his tics and activity levels...day AND night!

These programmes just turn people against the most vulnerable....and they managed to pick three families with circumstances which were frankly not usual. Most families on benefits DONT have 14 kids (would like to see the stats for how many families nationally are both that large and on benefits), most families on benefits are far more stable and functional than Sarah from Essex whose new boyfriend was a homeless Polish man she met on the steps of her local Morrisons.
The poor man with the severe spine problem was almost flagged up as "deserving"...until the filmmaker spotted his XBox I assume.

Horrible and judgemental, I won't be watching any more of them. They need taking off air.

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fiveacres · 28/05/2015 20:38

But in objecting vocally to them you have to WATCH them which is what the producers want Confused

fiveacres · 28/05/2015 20:39

Small part?

Long summary for someone who watched a small part Hmm

GratefulHead · 28/05/2015 20:39

Lotus, if you were an employer...would you employ Sarah? Don't know if you saw the programme but I doubt she CAN work.

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NinkyNonkers · 28/05/2015 20:41

My blood pressure can't take them tbh.

GratefulHead · 28/05/2015 20:42

I got through 20 mins of it....and in that time gleaned all of my long summary. The show was SO shit that I managed to glean that much while DS was pacing, stimming and generally interrupting.

I bought it was nasty and judgemental....and I started a thread to say so, possibly not the best idea but I felt angry.

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MrsNextDoor · 28/05/2015 20:43

MamaLazarou has it. They want to divide and conquer. If ALL the weak are squabbling over who has the most crumbs (and that's all most of us have compared to the rich) then they can get on with mainlining the wealth themselves.

GratefulHead · 28/05/2015 20:43

Hmm back at you fiveacres.

Safe to say I won't be watching any more of them.

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SeenSheen · 28/05/2015 20:45

I've only watched one of these programs however I have managed to see it twice. The bit that sticks in my mind is the situation of a man with no legs who gets around on a skateboard, From Romania I believe.

Anyway once he'd got his benefits and housing sorted here he was joined by his parents and lo and behold his mother had no need to look or claim to look for work as she was entitled to claim carers allowance for looking after him. This was available despite him having lived alone for years beforehand.

They were both surprised and delighted. I was amazed!

GoodbyeToAllOfThat · 28/05/2015 20:46

I haven't seen this, but why is Sarah unemployable?

LumpySpacedPrincess · 28/05/2015 20:50

Even if you ignore them they are still on. Sad

I know people who despise anyone on benefits because of programmes like this.
It's frightening how they are used to demonise people on benefits. You'd almost think it was deliberate wouldn't you.

LumpySpacedPrincess · 28/05/2015 20:53

You cannot ignore it and hope it goes away. Same with page 3 and people telling you to not buy the paper. The hatred that these programmes stirs up is tangible and is shaping our society.

maroonedwithfour · 28/05/2015 20:58

They had five children since going onto benefits. There kids have, tv ipads etc but they feed them shite tinned mince. Hmm

ghostspirit · 28/05/2015 20:58

goodbye it came across to me like she had some sort of learning difficulty. im sure there would be some jobs she can do. but i dont think she would have a fair chance compared to other people.

i went to a school for people with learning difficulties and she came across very simlar to people i went to school with.

maroonedwithfour · 28/05/2015 20:59

Yep my judgy pants are wedged.

OrangeVase · 28/05/2015 20:59

I haven't seen any of them so feel hypocritical saying that I agree with you when I haven't got the eveidence of my own eyes BUT from all I have heard it seems like they are horrible tv.

There are problems with benefits however - just as there are with a lot of other things in our society. It seems less fair than it used to be and when people are feeling threatened or are struggling or are losing what they had then any expose of unfairness will get an audience. Those in power will exploit that to their own advantage of course.

Foreverlurking · 28/05/2015 21:00

Vile vile vile.

I wonder if we could find 'tax avoidance' street?
Perhaps 'living off mummy and daddy's riches' street?
Or maybe '2 kitchens via the public purse' street.
'Expenses' street.

The list goes on :p

ghostspirit · 28/05/2015 21:01

maroonedwithfour it looked like cat food yuk yuk...

Osmiornica · 28/05/2015 21:08

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expatinscotland · 28/05/2015 21:09

YANBU

AryaUnderfoot · 28/05/2015 21:11

Foreverlurking haven't you ever seen 'bank of mum and dad' or whatever it's called?

Reality TV is the modern day equivalent of the Victorian travelling freakshows. The producers prey on the naive and stupid, promising them their 15 minutes' so that the masses can take the piss out of them. It's no different from Big Brother and X Factor (the totally talentless 'first round' auditions).

It's all just cheap TV.

obscuredbyclouds2 · 28/05/2015 21:13

The most amazing thing about your post is that despite your own considerably stressful life you found the time to show support for these exploited people. I hope that you can get through half-term.

AnyoneForTennis · 28/05/2015 21:15

I told my dc that I'd never ever serve them tinned mince.... The rest looked quite nice. However as we are almost at foodbank stage dd pointed out it might get given to us!! Do foodbanks have tinned mince?

editthis · 28/05/2015 21:16

YABU for watching it when even the name sets the tone. I have these types of programmes on series link. I'm JOKING, people; of course I don't. Or do I?

editthis · 28/05/2015 21:16

We should film a counter series.
Inbred, rich and proud.

Someone's already done this. It was called Life Is Toff.

PivotPIVOT · 28/05/2015 21:16

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