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To hate it when people miss out the word 'to'

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fiveacres · 26/05/2015 07:08

DS has picked it up.

'Hey, Mum, I want to go Florida!'
'you want to go TO Florida!'
'Yeah, that's what I said. I want to go Florida and -'

Argh.

I noticed this when I was teaching and it drove me crazy then - 'Can I go toilet?'

Grrrrrrr.

So am I being ridiculously anal or does anyone else loathe this? I also can't stand 'etc etc' which seems to be another thing DS is bringing home from school.

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longestlurkerever · 27/05/2015 10:36

(ours/yours) I mean. I am from Chester so not quite Scouse enough for "youse".

Gottagetmoving · 27/05/2015 11:36

I am in Cheshire longestlurkerever I would never say Yous, but I do say Come to ours or I will come to yours.
My DP is Scottish and he says 'The car needs washed' He wouldn't say it needs washing or to be washed.

stopgap · 27/05/2015 12:14

*mrsstarlord, you're spot on. I'm from the Wigan area, and on FB frequently see old school friends omitting the "to" in their posts.

soapboxqueen · 27/05/2015 13:37

Many people in the north east say yous eg 'Are yous lot coming down to the pub tonight?'

Ewes ð???

NKfell · 27/05/2015 14:21

In North Cumbria...the real North West Wink we say a short yuhs not 'ewes' ha

"Ah yuhs coming out later?"

I'm 100% guilty of this one!

TessBrookes · 27/05/2015 14:26

We use to here, but miss out 'the.'

"I'm off t'er shops."

Mousefinkle · 27/05/2015 16:18

I'm from Yorkshire and to is not a word I ever hear missed. 'The' is though. "Am off to shop" Grin.

Also t's in words which drives me MAD. I'm forever correcting my DC- "It's twenTy not twenny!" Feel increasingly like my old teachers...

TheAnswerIsYes · 27/05/2015 18:57

I just assume the person speaking is thick/lower class so I avoid them and don't let my child play with theirs.

Debs75 · 27/05/2015 21:02

Mousefinkle here its 'tut' which seems to be a mix of the and to or 'downt' as in 'get downt field'

Theanswerisyes i tend to avoid the plummy sounding people from Surrey (or thereabouts, geography not my strong point' Wink

blueshoes · 27/05/2015 21:21

Some of the language on this thread is shocking.

TheAnswerIsYes · 27/05/2015 23:18

Not that far off, Debs. We speak properly here in West London. Wink

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