Please be honest - because I have no desire to send dd to school dressed as either...
Tomorrow, dd's school has a dress-up day where all the kids are to dress smartly. DD, who doesn't do dresses, asked me if she could wear black leggings, white shirt and a bowtie.
Therefore, the outfit she is planning to wear is a new, long-sleeved white school shirt, a black bowtie and some normal black full-length leggings. She'll wear them with black, sensible, boots. She may wear a small adult size grey waistcoat that I bought from a charity shop today, providing it doesn't swamp her when she tries it on.
She described the outfit to her dad (my exH) on the phone last night, and he has sent me an email saying that he feels this is what bunny girls/strippers would wear and is therefore inappropriate.
I'm rather bemused, as it didn't occur to me for one second - and I still think that he is perhaps taking a somewhat unusual view on this...
Please could I have objective opinions - if you saw an 8 year old girl dressed in an outfit like this, would it make you think she was dressed inappropriately?
Thanks for your honest feedback.