This morning my daughter was going off to school and husband (retired) going off for a day's walking with friends. I am off to work at 11.45. Just as daughter and husband were preparing to leave I opened the washing machine - load done overnight and a whole lot of water gushed out. I then closed the door tried to see if I could spin the washing dry. No spinning but this activated the mechanism which locked the door. I discovered the manual and realised my best chance of getting the washing out might be to drain the machine, by getting out the panel at the bottom and unplugging the hose.
At this point my husband appeared and asked if I needed a hand. As it's a one person job - cramped area by sink/kettle etc, I said no. He then asked if it would be possible at some point before he left for him to boil a kettle to fill his flask with coffee.
At this point I got really cross with him, and said it was incredibly selfish to have asked as he could see I was busy trying to sort a problem. (We're going away tomorrow so it's not an ideal time to fix repairs.) Did he really need coffee as it's a warm day - it was hardly urgent? His line was that as he'd asked if I needed help and I had said no, it was perfectly reasonable to have then asked whether he'd be able to get his coffee sorted.
What do you think?