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AIBU?

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to ask: what makes you want to hoist up your judgey pants?

370 replies

butterflyballs · 28/04/2015 16:06

For me, it's the ignorance on vaccinations and the belief that measles is just a regular childhood disease. Makes me want to beat people with a large stick.

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Oscarandelliesmum · 29/04/2015 11:21

dog poo offenders and general littering get my goat.

DamFineBeaver · 29/04/2015 11:27

Ooh yes, and doo poo offenders. Total bastards.

muminhants · 29/04/2015 11:30

People who let their kids ride scooters in a shop and don't apologise or tell them to stop doing it when they crash into your legs

YY to this. A child went into my mum's back at top speed with a fully laden trolley - my mum ended up in A&E and needed a second spinal operation. KEEP YOUR CHILDREN UNDER CONTROL.

And, do internet shopping. The supermarket is not a good place for a family outing.

Pyjamaschocolateandwine · 29/04/2015 11:32

Parents of teenagers who refuse to belive that their 14/15/16 year olds are having sex,when I know for a solid fact that they are accessing contraception via the visiting school nurse who gives them the contraceptive injection, one after a secret termination, and the others have the implant. We met one at the brook centre when I was with my own dd supporting her choices at 15.

Still keep those pearl clutching blinkers on.

Jellyontheham · 29/04/2015 11:33

Just a bit more for Sunnybaudelaite and her professional offendedness - I'm amused by the use of Eire in your post - oh the irony! But this sums it up I think:

^Today Éire is almost unused, with the exception of right wing anti-Irish newspapers like the Daily Telegraph', the '"Daily Mail and newspapers from the Express Newspapers group. (The London Times has abandoned general usage and only use it at a time of major Anglo-Irish controversy.) The tone of their usage of the word has been such that the word's usage at all has been actively abandoned by everyone else. (Even using the word on wiki led me to be accused of being anti-Irish; I had to explain to five different users, 2 Irish, 1 British and 2 American, that far from being anti-Irish I am Irish myself, and was simply mentioning it in the context of Irish nomenclature and the 1937 constitution.)

The notoriously tactless Duke of Edinburgh had to be formally advised by the Foreign and Commonwealth Office not under any circumstances to call Ireland Éire such was its right wing anti-Irish meaning, thanks to its usage by right wing anti-Irish publications.

While the word carried no negative connotations when first coined constitutionally in 1937 decades of later usage by the right wing in Britain and by some extreme unionists in Northern Ireland has discredited it. During the most recent world cup one right wing daily newspaper in Britain managed to write an entire article without using the words Republic of Ireland to describe the football team, even though that is their name, the RoI football team. Instead they used the "Éire soccer team.

The article was littered with terminology and clichés (eg, 'drunken Micks', 'boozing paddies') that were criticised even by other British media outlets and which resulted in complaints over rascist stereotypes. (There was talk of a complaints to the Press Complaints Commission, but I don't know if they actually were made in the end.) That anti-Irish elements used Éire exclusively in anti-Irish (or anti-Éire) articles and commentaries has severely discoloured the word's implied meaning.

It is noticeable that as different newspaper groups in the UK have launched Irish editions, the very first thing to change is the abandonment of the word Éire from usage because they themselves recognise the manner of its previous usage and the fact as it result it is now seen as an offensive anti-Irish term.^

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oldguygirl · 29/04/2015 11:34

people who have an opinion about how many children you have - whether this is 16 or 1- I have 1 child and peopel expect me to justify myself - mind your own business.
People with no manners - especially children.
People who are rude.
Smokers...
Dog owners who dont pick up.
People who sem to have no control over their kids.
Facebook.....................................dont get me started.....
People who drive at 30 miles an hour in a 60 zone and then speed through 30 mph villages!
Snotty mums at school gates who think they are better than me because they are housewives....
God I have anger issues

SunnyBaudelaire · 29/04/2015 11:39

well well every day is a school day on mumsnet, thanks for that!
but I am not 'professionally' offended, as I do not earn money for it, so just an amateur, lol.

Dogseggs · 29/04/2015 11:39

Dog poo bags - there is no excuse for abandoning poo bags in the hedge, but sometimes I will leave one hidden away in a bush and pick it up at the end of the walk if it is the start of the walk and there are no bins about.

I can't help judging selfish people on public transport - people who leave suitcases on seats, feet on seats, noisy headphones, people talking loudly and swearily on their phones for the whole trip. They get my disapproval.

TattyDevine · 29/04/2015 11:40

"raising intonation at the end of a sentence...kill kill kill never mind judge"

Seriously?

So an Australian who grew up with a certain accent and subconsciously does this should be killed?

Wow.

SunnyBaudelaire · 29/04/2015 11:42

yes I am sure whoever said that was a hundred per cent serious and is out as we speak tracking down Aussies with a stun gun.

CheerfulYank · 29/04/2015 11:42

Pyjamas I was the pearl clutcher :o It's not that I wouldn't believe a teen was having sex, far from it!

What I (and what I think Viv) meant was the sort of thread on here where a mother posts that she is unsure about her 15 year old having her boyfriend sleep over and other posters chime in "well if they're going to do it anyway, might as well be in the house" etc. I don't agree with that. That's all.

Though at this point my children are 7, almost 2, and a month away from being born so who knows how I'll feel in a decade. :) But if I had to decide now, no way in hell would my 15 year old be having a boyfriend/girlfriend sleep over.

Songlark · 29/04/2015 11:46

But, I'd imagine when those Irish "immigrants" who had the freedom of movement moan about European immigrants who have the same right, it kind of grates a bit.. There is a massive difference between European immigrants and Irish people who decide to settle here. It wasn't the Eastern Europeans who built the roads, railways, tunnels, dams and public utilities of this country, we have the Irish "navvy* to thank for all of that. The connections between the two countries are massive. Not too long ago it was under British rule. I should imagine it "grated" a bit for the Irish when they had their country governed by a foreign power. The Irish who live here are as entitled as anyone else to moan about the rights and wrongs of British policies, after all they practically built the damn place.

KERALA1 · 29/04/2015 11:52

I judge people (usually young men) that walk along blaring music (always crap music) from their phone. Just so arrogant assuming everyone wants to listen to your tinny phat beats, get some headphones you selfish git.

Also, spitters, dog poo non picker uppers, litterers goes without saying.

SunnyBaudelaire · 29/04/2015 11:55

yes they tend to forget about that minor detail songlark.

Samcro · 29/04/2015 11:59

people(normally mums) who think their baby/child should be parked in wheelchair space on bus/
non disabled people who use disabled toilets.
people who think bad behaviour = sn
people who hate tattoos
people who know nothing about dog breeds yet judge them.
Ukip supporters
Torry supporters.

addstudentdinners2 · 29/04/2015 12:07

Samcro yy to dog breeds.

lambsie · 29/04/2015 12:09

People who say I would never let a child of mine use a buggy at 3 etc.

shrunkenhead · 29/04/2015 12:21

People who play the SN card for EVERYTHING.....A phenomena I have only ever seen on MN not in the real world.
My friend's son is really fussy about food/badly behaved/stands on his head/insert whatever the random complaint is and you will be GUARANTEED someone will pipe up "He might have SN...."

DoraGora · 29/04/2015 12:24

mn is a discussion forum. Having SN is just one possibility. It's unreasonable not to suggest it. It doesn't mean that it's actually the case. If it's reasonable, then so be it.

BathshebaDarkstone · 29/04/2015 12:26

Oh I'm the same about the regularly late parents at school. Have they got clocks in their houses? Hmm

DoraGora · 29/04/2015 12:30

Thing that annoys me about school is, they say 8.30. But, if you get there at that time, regardless of weather, you have to stand in the yard for 10 mns +, waiting for them to open the door. (And, you're not allowed to put the children inside yourself.) What's that all about.

No, thanks.

theDudesmummy · 29/04/2015 12:30

I would rather people at least consider the possibility that someone may have SN or mental health problems, even if that turns out not to be the case, than the other position of assuming the person is is naughty/badly brought up/drunk or whatever.

shrunkenhead · 29/04/2015 12:32

Agggggghhhhhh!

shrunkenhead · 29/04/2015 12:33

People who are always late for school and it's usually the ones who live nearest the school!

DoraGora · 29/04/2015 12:33
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