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To still be rocking my 6 month old to sleep?

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VexiLexi303 · 27/04/2015 10:30

I need to know if there's other mums out there having the same problem! DS recently turned 6 months and has been a great sleeper, sleeping through the night at 4 months so that's not what concerns me.

I can usually time DS's naps. Roughly he naps every two hours but this can vary with sometimes being a little earlier or later as I can tell when he's cranky. The problem is recently in the past few weeks DS refuses to nap without being rocked, he kicks up, cries, red face and tears until he's rocked but even then if it's not long enough and I set him down the cycle begins all over again, I should also mention DS is a heavy baby, he's 22 pounds but he's a long baby so not chubby, HV said he's a great weight at last weigh in which was grand but after a few minutes of rocking my arms and back are killing me! Blush

I've tried a softer CC for this and let him cry for roughly one or two minutes before going in to pat and comfort him/give him his dummy back and this does work, he'll roll onto his side and sleep but it distresses me so much seeing him cry and seeing his tears and he's teething (already has two bottom front teeth!) so I tend to convince myself that this also makes him fussy with naps. Sad

AIBU to continue rocking him and hope he grows out of it or am I creating a rod for my own back as they say? Genuinely torn with this one!

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LetThereBeCupcakes · 28/04/2015 07:25

Fox will PM you to save hijacking too much Grin

CrispyFern · 28/04/2015 08:02

Still cuddling my two year old to sleep and not worried about it at all!

Handsoff7 · 28/04/2015 08:34

You've only got one back and once it goes wrong it's hard to fix.

If you are having back problems with what you are doing you need to change things.

VexiLexi303 · 28/04/2015 20:01

Hey everyone! Wanted to give a quick update on DS! I've pushed his nap time forward for the majority of his naps today and managed to keep him occupied so he wasn't too fussy. He was drifting off on the way upstairs and literally conked out so no rocking for me! Smile Have still ordered a glider and made an appointment with GP as well to see if anything can be done with my back or if I can get a physio appointment.

So I just wanted to let you know and say thank you! You've all been so great taking time to help, thank you and never change! Smile Flowers

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LokiBear · 28/04/2015 20:06

I pushed dd back and forth very fast in the pushchair to get her to sleep in the day once she became to heavy to rock. Or drove around with her in the car. YANBU. Do what works. DD is 3.8 and we have no sleep issues at all. You can't spoil a baby.

VexiLexi303 · 28/04/2015 20:08

Thank you, Loki, I've realised that now and blocked certain judgey pants friend from my life and we'll stick to keeping naps a bit later and using the glider if need be. Smile

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Coyoacan · 29/04/2015 03:06

Great news, OP. Glad you are seeing to your back

LetThereBeCupcakes · 29/04/2015 08:01

OP that's fantastic! Long may it continue.

Olbersparadox · 29/04/2015 10:04

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ladymalfoy · 29/04/2015 10:14

I love you all! I'm still rocking and snudging my DD to sleep but she's only 16 months.
We have a glider and the noise of it ( swoosh swoosh)along with stroking and shushing gets her to sleep in 15 mins.
A precious 15 minutes.

LetThereBeCupcakes · 29/04/2015 10:44

After posting on and reading this thread I was really looking forward to snuggling DS to sleep yesterday. Naptime came 'round and he announced "sleep in bed, mummy", and stomped off. Stayed there for 2 and a half hours. Hmm. I have BFd and snuggled that child to sleep for pretty much every nap he's taken and that's how he repays me! Grin

I think they like to keep us on our toes.

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