Ive put this here because it gets a lot of traffic but feel free to move.
So, deep breath, here we go.
I've got a cousin I'll call Ann and husband Jim.
Jim goes to the doctors in 2011 complaining of bleeding from rectum and stomach pain.
GP examines him , finds a haemorrhoid and treats him accordingly.
Jim makes several visits of this nature and each time is treated for 'piles'.
Never is he sent for or suggested he has a colonoscopy.
2012 this is still ongoing. It's where I come into the picture. We don't live near Ann and Jim but we get together for a family celebration,get on so well together that we start seeing each other four or five times in the year for a week at a time. So, I too become aware of his problems.
2013 Jim still having problems. On a couple of their other breaks away Jim ends up at a and e in pain. Even ends up in a and e at his locall hospital and still no red flag is waved.
Come sept 2013 a new doctor joins te practice as the other three are retiring. Jim sees this new doctor who is quite alarmed at what has gone on. Jim is sent for a colonoscopy.
And you know what is coming next....He is diagnosed stage 4 colorectal bowel cancer in feb 2014!
He has chemotherapy, radiotherapy. An operation to remove the tumour. He is left with a permanent stoma bag and 16 weeks of aggressive chemotherapy.
He never made the last chemotherapy. He was too sick, weak in too much pain for them to Administer it.
He was taken into hospital where he died three weeks later in march 2015.
Before his surgery in 2014 he was advised to see a solicitor about his misdiagnosis. I used to work for one of the big companies ( I'm not a solicitor ) and Juim took my advice and instructed this company.
This week Ann has had the heartbreaking news that they will not proceed with the case. They have employed an expert witness and in Jims notes there is no mention of bowel problems in a crucial 10 month period between early 2012 and 2013.
Excuse me if I'm a bit vague at this point because I dont have the notes in front of me.
The expert witness( an oncologist ) can only go on what's in front of him. He states in his report that the outcome of Jims illness would have been the same if he had had intervention 5 month earlier which I don't disagree with but what about earlier intervention in 2012. These are the notes that we just don't know about.
So, the solicitors won't proceed with the case..because of lack of evidence.
Obviously we need to see Jims notes. We also need to talk to the solicitors before they close the case in ten days time.
Just wondered if anyone has any experience of this. I'm out of my depth here but it just seems like Jim has been treated really shabbily and I want to do my best for Ann. It doesn't help being so far away. I just worry that if I start interfering without knowing what I'm doing I could make things worse.
I don't understand how the GPs have not documented Jims pain and bleeding in those crucial 10 months. Gawd, if I knew about it, the doctors certainly would. Jim was no shrinking violet. He would have complained vociferously to the doctors.