I'm a regular but have namechanged for this.
I've been in the same profession/job for over 10 years. I've had some great times there and absolutely love my colleagues and my boss, it is the most gorgeous environment you can imagine and for many years I could never imagine leaving, but the nature of the job is driving me nuts. My plan was to carry on for 4 to 5 more years and then to look for a job that uses many of the skills I have in my current job but is very different day to day. I have always had a dream job in mind. This is quite an unusual position and it doesn't come up very often.
So, my dream job has just come up. Not only that but I know many of the people who work in the organisation already and they have encouraged me to apply. I'm not being boastful in saying I think I have a good chance of getting the job if I do apply.
But this is my dilema. I do want to do this eventually but wasn't planning to do it right now. Things are incredibly busy and a little unsettled at work right now and my boss (who is also a friend) is under alot of pressure both at work and home. If I got the job I would have to leave fairly soon and I know it would put her in a very difficult situation in terms of recruitment. I would, of course serve my notice but she has no idea I am even thinking of leaving so I know she will be very upset and stressed. I honestly don't know if I can do it to her or if, in fact I am ready to leave. However, these jobs come up so rarely I feel that I might be really pissed off if I don't take this chance. Any opinions would be very gratefully received! Thanks!