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AIBU?

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to not go on a speed awareness course

303 replies

sPJPPp · 08/04/2015 09:51

The course will be 97 and the fine is 100.

I would get three points and my insurance will go up by about 40 next year.

The course is 2 hours drive away and will take 4 hours. So the best part of a day taken away.

Aibu to just take the points as 40 to loose a day off is just not enough.

OP posts:
LaurieFairyCake · 08/04/2015 11:35

You've had a bit of a hard time SP.

Tailgaters are a nightmare.

I would do the course to avoid the points as you drive so much.

Sparklingbrook · 08/04/2015 11:37

Any OP starting an AIBU about speeding and saying some of the things the OP has would have had a hard time TBF.

JustDrivingHome · 08/04/2015 11:38

If you can't even work out road conditions or whether there are any other cars on the road (empty road vs a tailgater) then I think you need to do the course.

It will help you with an awful lot more than being able to tell when there are other road users around, but everyone needs to start somewhere. And it sounds as though the sooner you get started, the better and safer for all other people in your vicinity.

Discounted · 08/04/2015 11:39

"Driving in 3rd at 30? Sounds like that would waste a lot of fuel over my 10000s of miles each year tbh."

As I understand it, that's not true for modern car and changing up early to save fuel is outdated advice.

EBearhug · 08/04/2015 11:40

I really enjoyed my course. It was interesting and engaging and informative, and I did get some hints and tips, about changing gear and so on. (Hah, wish I could do that in my car just now - it's about to be very expensive after the gears went entirely last night...) It was also interesting hearing perspectives from bikers and lorry drivers, because I don't have experience of driving those myself.

We had a mix of people on our course - including a couple of new drivers, whose parents had paid for them to take part as part of some pass plus course or something, rather than them having yet been caught speeding. But I'd say there was no particular age group in the majority.

Once you pass your driving test in this country, you don't have to do any sort of refresher. But the rules of the road may have changed since we passed our tests, and I'd put money on it that most people don't regularly check the Highway Code just in case. I also think that people who have been driving a number of years will have probably picked up some bad habits along the way, which they may not be fully aware of - particularly if they do a lot of driving - when my gears went last night, it made me aware that I'm not usually very conscious of changing gear, because I'm doing it because of the sound and feel of the car, I don't need to look at the gear stick at all, and it all just works without me having to think (until it doesn't) - it's a good thing when skills have developed to that sort of unconsciousness, but bad habits also develop that way, not just the good ones.

IMO, it's the people who say they don't need to go on the course, and are arrogant about how well they drive are the ones who need it. There is not a single driver among us who couldn't do something better, not one of us who won't have been involved in a near miss, whether through our own fault or not, and some of us will have been involved in crashes, too. Each one of us could have made different decisions at the time which could have made the outcome better or worse. I think the majority of us get it more or less right more or less all the time, but the course is there to help with the times we might not.

I would happily do the course again, although I don't plan on being in a position to do so (apparently you can sign up just for interest, though - no idea if this would count against the "one course in three years" thing if you then got caught speeding within this time; the aim of course being that you wouldn't be speeding to get caught anyway.)

thornrose · 08/04/2015 11:42

Our course instructor recommended the advanced driver training. I am tempted, apparently it can reduce your insurance premiums too.

StillStayingClassySanDiego · 08/04/2015 11:43

Never had an accident that was my fault

Have you seen many?

StillStayingClassySanDiego · 08/04/2015 11:45

Were you on your way to buy kale chips before they ran out?

Snottybiyatch · 08/04/2015 11:57

I'm glad you're going OP, but I can't help thinking that the attitude you have been displaying here I'm an excellent driver, have every justification for flouting the speed limit, everybody else on the road is a dick and a cunt and I have nothing to learn sort of vibe, you may well be wasting your time (and everybody else's)

Hope not: I found it very helpful and eye opening, but maybe I really was crap to start with!

SoupDragon · 08/04/2015 11:58

LOL.

It was the fog light using tailgater!
It was because I was going downhill!
It was because I didn't notice the speed limit change!

RabidFairy · 08/04/2015 11:58

Glad you are going on the course OP. Bit worrying that you claim you can't concentrate for a full 4 hours though Confused

RyanAirVeteran · 08/04/2015 12:00

I was sent on one because someone t boned me as I was coming out of a side road.

It still rankles all these years later.

He stoved in my car door, refused to back his car up so I could get out.

He had been drinking but passed the breathalyser (the police officer was noticeably disappointed. Grin

Stubbed · 08/04/2015 12:01

Do the course. It's boring though

Sparklingbrook · 08/04/2015 12:02

So how come you had to go on the course Ryan? Were you speeding?

PunkrockerGirl · 08/04/2015 12:04

I quite enjoyed the course and did find it informative.

However, it could easily have been condensed into 2 hours. No way did it need to last for 4.

SoupDragon · 08/04/2015 12:06

it could easily have been condensed into 2 hours

Not without speeding :o

MaxPepsi · 08/04/2015 12:06

EBear my DH has been driving for years, and done an advanced course due to his work and he found out new things.

The main one being what constitutes a dual carriageway. I knew this as I only passed my test in the last 5 years so unsure if the 'rules' have changed since he passed or if it wasn't really taught and he's never given real thought to it. He was amazed he didn't know about it.

I am a very confident driver but with that confidence comes a certain amount of arrogance I am sure. I have always said re tests of some sort should be compulsory and I'd welcome them. So long as it's done from the aspect of keeping roads safe, not as a money making scam!

RyanAirVeteran · 08/04/2015 12:07

No, I was pulling out of a side road, he was on a long straight road and hit me so hard that my car shifted six inches.

The local police commissioner had pushed hard for these courses to be introduced and they were handing them out like snuff at a wake at the time.

Sparklingbrook · 08/04/2015 12:10

So you hadn't done anything wrong Ryan? Confused

sherbetpips · 08/04/2015 12:10

I was amazed at how little people on the course new. very few seem to have been taught the basics and were quite shocked. It also reminded me that I used to be able to 'feel' how I was driving and what the car was doing a lot more than I do now. I drive a lot for work so I didnt want to risk taking the points.

sherbetpips · 08/04/2015 12:12

Ryan did they say you were speeding at the time of the crash and if so by how much (i.e. are they saying he should have been able to pull out safely had you been doing the speed limit)? just trying to figure out why you ended up on driver awareness?

sPJPPp · 08/04/2015 12:12

I don't think anyone can really concentrate for 4 hours, your kidding yourself!

It does just seem like a punishment for adults, make them bored out of their brains for hours. Still I guess I should reserve judgement.

I'm a bit Hmm at the people that find it interesting. Then again millions watch shit on TV .

OP posts:
Fluffy40 · 08/04/2015 12:12

I've done one , and my mum in law has done one. She was 71 at the time !

RyanAirVeteran · 08/04/2015 12:12

No sparkling, which is why it still rankles 10 years later.

PunkrockerGirl · 08/04/2015 12:14

SoupDragon Grin