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To be angry that my doctor won't prescribe the drug I want

102 replies

DazeyandConfused · 27/03/2015 15:59

I went to the doctors today to try and get a prescription for diannett. It is a 'skin friendly' contraceptive pill. In other words it nukes spots and considering I'm long past the age when spots are appropriate, it is a god send. I've been on and off it for 9 years. There is a slight increase in the risk of blood clots/stroke/heart attack after two but that has never been a problem. I'm fit, healthy and every time I try another pill/acne combination, it doesn't work/I feel ill. Today the doctor put his foot down and wouldn't prescribe it. AIBU to get really angry over this? Is there anything I can do?

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nochocolateforlentteacake · 27/03/2015 16:02

Did s/he say why they wouldn't prescribe it?

It usually comes down to risk or cost.

PtolemysNeedle · 27/03/2015 16:03

YABU to get really angry over it, but I feel your pain. Dianette was the best thing I tried for my skin as well, and I was gutted when I wasn't allowed it anymore. Now I'd rather go without because everything rise is crap.

But you've done well, you got years more than I did and we don't have the right just to demand whatever we want from the NHS. Your best bet is trying to find a private GP who will prescribe it.

DidoTheDodo · 27/03/2015 16:03

Did he say why he wouldn't prescribe it?

DazeyandConfused · 27/03/2015 16:04

Apparently, and this is almost a direct quote 'it would look bad in the media if I dropped down dead'

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DidoTheDodo · 27/03/2015 16:05

If he thinks there is a good chance you might "drop down dead" that's probably a good reason for not prescribing it.

TravelinColour · 27/03/2015 16:08

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FunkyPeacock · 27/03/2015 16:09

I can see this from both sides tbh

As a prescriber you take ultimate responsibility for the prescribing decisions you make. If you did 'drop down dead' as he/she put it then they may need to justify why they agreed to prescribe. "Because dazedandconfused begged me to" might not be adequate justification!

TravelinColour · 27/03/2015 16:10

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DoJo · 27/03/2015 16:12

Did you explore the alternative options for tackling your acne? I was on Dianette for a while, but I would rather be spotty that dead so switched to alternative contraceptives and acne meds instead.

Wibblypiglikesbananas · 27/03/2015 16:14

How annoying. I'd either find someone willing to do a private prescription or go somewhere you can buy the pill over the counter and stock up. When I was a student in Spain, you just went to the pharmacy and bought the pill (note - only if that's not dangerous to your health). Good luck OP.

DazeyandConfused · 27/03/2015 16:17

Tried both the other 'skin friendly' contraceptives, they are crap. I have fairly severe acne, on Diannette I look like a reasonably sensible middle age woman, as opposed to a 14 year old with wrinkles.

How would I go about private prescription?

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Sleepyfergus · 27/03/2015 16:19

I used to take Dianette for contraceptive use many years ago and remember there being a limit as to how long you should take it for, which I recall being 10 years. I also think (but can't be sure) that it shouldn't be taken if there is a history of oestrogen dominant cancer in you or your family history.

At the end of the day, your doctor is the expert and you have to go by his recommendation, even if you don't agree.

iklboo · 27/03/2015 16:19

You're not guaranteed to get it on private prescription either - particularly if there are contraindications. You might find a doctor who's willing to issue privately but you can't demand a prescription even if you're willing to pay for it.

Higgle · 27/03/2015 16:32

You can buy it on line from Lloyds on line pharmacy - they say you should have severe acne or hirsutism but obviously they only now what you tell them...... If you know the risks and want to accept them this would be a way forward.

DoJo · 27/03/2015 16:33

Tried both the other 'skin friendly' contraceptives, they are crap.

But what about other acne treatments?

takemeuptheeiffeltower · 27/03/2015 16:35

GP's nowadays (unlike GP's of old) seem to be scared to use their own judgement and tend to rigidly follow 'Current Guidelines', even though often 'Current Guidelines' are fond of stating that, even if there is a 'slight' risk involved with a medication, it shouldn't be prescribed.

This approach very often leads to unnecessary scaremongering surrounding certain medications.
As a result, patients very often suffer needlessly and have to take less effective medications, which is criminal really, when you think there is medication out there that could sort their problem in a jiffy - but those medications are being withheld!

It's a ridiculous way to look at things, because ALL medication carries risk, you only have to look at all the contra indications on a packet of everyday painkillers. But they don't care about those.
I suspect a lot is to do with cost.

And a lot is also to do with our nanny-state attitude of not letting adults make their own informed decisions.

It's about Control.

The correct approach to prescribing medications, in an Ideal World would be to take a balanced approach and see if the benefits outweigh the risks, and act accordingly.

Also, if Doctors are so scared of getting it wrong, , patients would all sign a disclaimer saying they understand the risks, but would still like to take the medication anyway.
That way Doctor AND Patient would go away happy.

geekymommy · 27/03/2015 16:41

Dianette is banned in France after some women died from taking it. It's been reviewed in the UK for causing depression. It has never been approved by the FDA here in the US due to concerns over it being toxic to the liver. Sorry, but I can see why a doctor might be cautious in prescribing it.

MrsAidanTurner · 27/03/2015 16:43

well the doc is supposed to be looking out for your health not cosmetic stuff....

geeky, thats shocking. they have been trying to put me on it for years but instinct has told me to steer clear...

BabyGanoush · 27/03/2015 16:45

or go private to see a dermatologist?

Could you afford to?

When I came to the UK, I was on Yasmin, they wanted to give me Microgynon or Femodene (as it's cheaper) but I was allowed to stick with Yasmin as I and had it before. It is a much lighter pill, with much less side effects, but you can only get it for a special reason in the UK due to cost.

This is the "problem" with a public health service. In a private system, one could choose the more expensive option and just pay for it.

LittleMiss77 · 27/03/2015 16:48

I used to be on Dianette for the same reason (Roaccutane previously, then they all came back)

Went to the GP for a check up and his words were something along the lines of "You've been on this so long, im surprised you're still standing"

I was put on Yasmin as an alternative and it worked just as well. Have you tried this OP?

DayLillie · 27/03/2015 16:54

I changed to Cilest for a while to help with skin. It helped but made me terribly broody - I already had twins, but would have willingly risked triplets Confused so I came off it after 6 months and I went back to normal, thank goodness.

My skin gradually improved over years on Femodene, but now that I am banned from that, I now have menopausal spots and it is no fun at all Sad

BeeRayKay · 27/03/2015 16:56

Just ask for a referral to a dermatologist instead. Not hard.

And trust me. I know all about acne and spots.

I went to an NHS dermatologist and got a four pronged attack for my spots and they seem to be better.

alrayyan · 27/03/2015 17:01

Yasmin is expensive? I buy it in the pharmacy here in Qatar. It's about £4. I think it's pathetic that people don't get any say in what drugs are prescribed for them.

Chilliplantbox · 27/03/2015 17:02

Look, all is on/off business is playing havoc with your hormones. Just stay off any sort of hormonal contraception for at least a year if you want to see an improvement in your skin. Trust me!

WickedWax · 27/03/2015 17:06

I feel your pain. I was on Dianette from the age of 15 (for contraception and acne treatment) until I was about 24 and then my doctor refused to prescribe it any more.

But actually, my skin has never ever looked better than it has since I've been off any kind of hormonal contraception. Worth a try?

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