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To be deleted for calling someone a muppet?

118 replies

ConstanceMoan · 26/03/2015 07:41

Seriously?

Would you take offence at being described as a muppet? Would it bother you so much that you'd go to the trouble of reporting it? If you were a MN mod would you delete it?

This isn't really a TAAT before anyone gets their knickers in a twist but, really, on a site where MNetters regularly call other women names I would never use such as

C*nts
Bitches
Wank stains
Old bags/hags

To name but a few, is muppet really a delectable offense? And who in the name of Justine actually reports this stuff...

OP posts:
ConstanceMoan · 26/03/2015 08:30

But how can saying "the OP was a muppet" be a personal attack? Attack - really??!

OP posts:
Sparklingbrook · 26/03/2015 08:32

Were they a muppet though? Grin

Pagwatch · 26/03/2015 08:37

Yes, it's a personal attack.
You are supposed to attack the post not the poster.
I would not be irritated with mnhq for deleting me, I would be irritated with the saddo that reported it.

But, as others have said, it would depend on the context. One of the nastiest behaviour towards me from another poster didn't include calling me anything. She was fucking vile, all in seemingly polite dispassionate tones.

BabyOnBoob · 26/03/2015 08:37

Grin at the dog called Muppet.

An ex used to call people fraggles, as in 'fuck off you smelly little fraggle'

Only1scoop · 26/03/2015 08:38

Did you call 'sock muppet'

MangoJuggler · 26/03/2015 08:44

ROAR at Beaker being all me me me. Proper guffaw.

SueChef · 26/03/2015 08:45

Ya but, it is a personal attack

SueChef · 26/03/2015 08:46

Ha! Yabu not ya but! Grin

MangoJuggler · 26/03/2015 08:47

SueChef what a great username. Clever.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 26/03/2015 09:01

I am genuinely baffled by the things MNHQ deletes sometimes. I once had a post deleted because I asked someone to clarify something. I didn't insult anyone, personally attack anyone or say anything offensive or anything like that, I just literally asked the OP to clarify something as I didn't understand what she meant. My post was deleted "for breaking talk guidelines" Confused.

Even the OP was baffled as to why it was deleted.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 26/03/2015 09:02

To answer the question though, no I wouldn't report someone for calling me a muppet. "Muppet" is hardly a personal attack.

Whippet81 · 26/03/2015 09:03

If it's the post I'm thinking of (and it might not be) you were actually quite rude.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 26/03/2015 09:05

What did you actually say, OP? In what context?

AlreadyUsed · 26/03/2015 09:07

I had a post merely consisting of Biscuit deleted once.
Which I thought was odd, given that Biscuit purportedly means "No Comment" and was provided by MNHQ itself.

Poledra · 26/03/2015 09:07

One of our cats is called Muppet. And he is. This is the cat who falls asleep on the narrow windowsill, then falls off said windowsill. Then gets back onto the windowsill and goes back to sleep. And falls off. Rinse and repeat all evening.

We've moved the sofa to being underneath the windowsill so he at least gets a soft landing...

ConstanceMoan · 26/03/2015 10:31

First of all, I am humbled that my thread has been graced with the presence of not just real muppets but sooty as well

To those asking what I said, only that the OP was a muppet and the people encouraging her to plaster the problem all over FB were "loons".

Maybe it was a loon who reported it Confused

OP posts:
BlackeyedSusan · 26/03/2015 10:39

muppet goes inthe same category as daft 'a'p'orth, plonker, and silly billy.

bananayellow · 26/03/2015 10:42

It's an affectionate term. YANBU

SideOrderofChips · 26/03/2015 10:45

How would you define someone being a muppet? Is there specific muppet like behaviour? Like having a hand up your arse? I'm intrigued!

CatsCantTwerk · 26/03/2015 10:47

I have just been deleted for calling the op a PERSON albeit it had cold hearted in front of it, But really? Hmm

Grantaire · 26/03/2015 10:47

A delectable offence indeed.

I have been deleted once after some muppet accused me of stalking her across MN. We'd posted on two threads and disagreed on both. I said if that constituted stalking for her, she was delusional. Only ever deletion. I was fuming. I didn't attack her, I pointed out her failings. Grin

MiddleAgedandConfused · 26/03/2015 10:49

I call my kids muppets all the time (and numpties) when they do something daft, or accuse them of mupine behaviour. I had no idea I was using an offensive term.

LikeIcan · 26/03/2015 10:53

Op: yes I probably would take offence at being called a muppet. It's an insult really isn't it.

But I wouldn't report you.

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 26/03/2015 10:56

I fail to see what is so offensive about that. YANBU.

PrettyPenguin · 26/03/2015 11:08

I call my kids muppets all the time when they do something a bit silly. I also call them numpties - to the point that my DS (3) has started called me a numpty randomly! Grin I consider both to be innocuous and fairly affectionate, along the same lines as 'silly billy.'