To be sick of hearing about this by now

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In December DH went out with some friends and had an argument with someone's wife. Admittedly she was out of order in what she said.

However he is STILL going on about it - not just mentioning it but getting angry all over again every time. Keeps muttering about it and crying, reliving it and then angry all over again. He just constantly talks about it and honestly I'm sympathetic but I'm fucking sick of it!

Aibu?

if she's apologised I think he needs to accept that is the best outcome - she can't make it unhappen.

It's interesting your ds was accusing them of being unsupported.. Is he like this.. Causing trouble with people.. Her comment doesn't see so awful when you put it in context..he sounds like he puts his own emotional stuffbonto others. I would not like if some guy l was a bit friendly with accused me of not being supportive when his dad died. I would think he is trying to stir up drama and l hate that. Does he do that..stir up drama?

Thinking the same as comedancing. It sounds like he has accused them, she has stood up for them and because your husband is grieving he has really taken it to heart. If someone accused me of not being there when I had I'd be really annoyed. It sounds like she defended the friends and he's focused on selective parts of what she said. As you tend to in an argument. I hope he gets through this ok maybe he'd be best speaking to someone who can help let go of the anger and help with the grieving process