wibu to never let this woman anywere near my family again

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Got into an argument with DH's step sister yesterday about something she said about our 3yr old son, it went from a telephone argument to her turning up at my house swearing and shouting in the street which scared my DS and then she grabbed me by hair n tried to drag me off my own doorstep , I should point out I am 32wks pregnant so my instant reaction is if she can attack me whilst my son is within sight and while im pregnant she should not be let anywere near him again , he is now afraid her and was up late sayin "aunty x is scary she hurt mummy" so clearly he saw what she did , DH wants me to speak to police but she has 3 kids n I don't want them seein there mum hauled off in cuffs I really don't know what to do.

I'm so sorry to hear about your early labour. I'm not totally surprised that no charges were brought but at least the incident has been logged in the system. Police involvement may also have given her a fright. She is a disgusting person and I hope she stays away from you.

I'm sorry OP, I hope you are okay today. I would certainly go NC with her and if she comes near you again I would call the police and video her on the phone.

Is there anyway you can ensure she can't come near you again? Restraining order?

Sounds awful I'm sorry to hear about the outcome however you did the right thing reporting her. Hopefully that will encourage her to steer clear. If she doesn't don't hesitate to contact police.
Rest up and try not to stress over that pathetic excuse of a woman.

You could pursue this further, but you have to put your pregnancy first because doing so will cause you even more stress. This woman should not get away with this for so many reasons.

I was threatened with assault by my GS's dad, but it was my word against his and he denied, denied, denied backed by his mother. The only problem with this is that he went on to attack others and has just finished a sentence for gbh.

It does seem to vary with what officer you get as they will ultimately take it to their sergeant for a decision. My DD was harassed by an ex with around 50 texts a day and stalking. Ex was taken to court, found guilty and received 125 hours community service within a month.

This week a man who kicked another in the head when he was on the ground ike a football received a sentence of 100 hours community service. You are absolutely right about inconsistencies in the judicial system.

I am horrified no action has been taken because to me it is not just an attack on you but on your baby. Words fail me.