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to think buses should have 'child priority' seats....

101 replies

ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2015 13:43

fitted with seatbelts?

I find it extraordinary that there are such tight controls when it comes to children travelling in cars,yet a parent is expected to get on a bus,and grapple with sometimes more than one small child,sometimes a baby.....

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Morelikeguidelines · 13/03/2015 13:46

Interesting. Can't really argue safety wise.

Is it because buses don't often crash?

ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2015 13:51

I'm not sure on the crash statistics -but with all the hard hand rails etc I imagine a crash would cause a lot of casualties.
I often even think of the sudden jerky movements on buses -with the handrails on the backs of seats at many children face heights,theremust be injuries caused by children flying forward and hitting their faces/teeth.

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browneyedgirl86 · 13/03/2015 13:51

Why just children? Shouldn't every bus have seat belts then? I know the buses round here do but I've never saw them in use.

I think child priority seats would be a nightmare. Particularly during busy periods. How would it work? If a disabled person got on and the only seat available is a child priority seat, could they not sit on it? Could a parent come along with a kid and turf them out? Buses can be a nightmare at the best of times with prams taking all the wheelchair space, I dread to think the headache it would cause to have child seats!! Yabu

Gileswithachainsaw · 13/03/2015 13:52

I think it's a good idea too. DD2 can he a pain. yet somehow is ok with seat belts so life would he much easier if I could strap her in in a bus Grin

BubblesInMyBath · 13/03/2015 13:54

It's more dangerous for a small child to wear a seatbelt than not wear one.

Obviously if it was 5 point safety harnesses and seats that raised the child to the appropriate height for the belt then I would agree with you.

There are plenty of accidents with kids on buses.

Lottapianos · 13/03/2015 13:54

'Why just children? Shouldn't every bus have seat belts then?'

Indeed

ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2015 13:58

It'd be great for all seats to have them if budget would allow,of course.
But if there had to be priority I would equip the already prioritised seats,and then childrens priority seating.

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ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2015 14:00

Bubbles in that case 5 point safety harnesses and booster seats available seems sensible.

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Snoopysimaginaryfriend · 13/03/2015 14:01

Part of my job is to attend road traffic accidents that result in injury, including people falling over on buses, and in six years in central London I haven't come across one child being injured falling over on a bus. Lots of elderly people but no children.

It would be practically impossible I think as you would have to bring your own child seat dependant on your child's height.

ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2015 14:04

I'm surprised at that Snoopy !
It was more by luck than judgement a couple of times,when I had a baby in the removable buggy car seat,and a toddler,that I stopped both/all of us going flying at abrupt halts!

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BubblesInMyBath · 13/03/2015 14:04

I just don't think there is time tbh, if you look at how quickly people are hopping on and off buses, it would massively slow a route down for parents to be strapping kids in suitable seats on buses.

I also imagine buses might be safer than cars for the passengers due to people sitting far higher than in cars, less risk taking by driver I hope ESP as can easily be reported and lose job, and drivers receive regular training?

ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2015 14:16

It takes hardly any time.
I think most are tolerant of people getting on who are less steady,and realise the bus won't/shouldn't move until they're sat,so I don't see the difference really.

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Behindthepaintedgarden · 13/03/2015 14:19

"Why just children? Shouldn't every bus have seat belts then? "

Exactly. Also if an elderly person is sitting in a child priority seat, would they have to stand up when a child got on?

BubblesInMyBath · 13/03/2015 14:20

Yes but as a regular inner london bus user - averaging at least 4 buses daily. I may encounter perhaps 2-3 wheelchair users or those less steady on their feet. I encounter far far more kids.

Plus there's enough buggy wars as it is on buses, there would be a lot of war over seats for kids, which aren't really possible anyhow because weight and height are different in each child

Mehitabel6 · 13/03/2015 14:21

Maybe because children are expected to sit on a parent's lap if small and the bus is crowded or stand up for an old person if they are older.

Mehitabel6 · 13/03/2015 14:21

I regularly get on a bus with seat belts-no one uses them.

morethanpotatoprints · 13/03/2015 14:22

YABU

Children should give up seats for elderly, disabled, pg women, etc.
Who would want to manage all this potential fallout.

Behindthepaintedgarden · 13/03/2015 14:25

Anyway, it will just give the more entitled precious parents something else to get entitled and precious about.
When I read some stories of the way certain parents behave over P&C spaces I am Shock

ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2015 14:28

By 'child priority' I mean child priority.
ie children would take priority over other users.
I know we could envisage an argument where there are 5 elderly people,3 wheelchair users,and a pregnant woman get onto a full bus with 4 children occupying child priority seats.
I would say that the onus would be on the able bodied people occupying seats to offer their seats to passengers with greater need.

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ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2015 14:31

And bear in mind that not all buses are over crowded.

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Aridane · 13/03/2015 14:44

Nope - don't agree

Mehitabel6 · 13/03/2015 14:45

Anyway, it will just give the more entitled precious parents something else to get entitled and precious about

Unbearable I would say!

Samcro · 13/03/2015 14:54

no please no

chickenfuckingpox · 13/03/2015 15:42

Personally i just want all seats to have lap belts so i can strap my six year old in the bus driver told him off the other day he just wont sit still i dont care where he is on the bus if he is strapped in he sits still!

Floggingmolly · 13/03/2015 15:47

No. Children should not have priority to the seats on buses. Can you imagine having to stand up for some snotty little school uniformed brat because he's got "priority"??