I work in an office with 2 departments in it. There are quite a lot of men in there and we generally have a good laugh. I do generally have a naughty sense of humour and so 'office banter' (much as I hate that phrase its the best way to describe it), generally consists of a lot of silly double entendres.
However, today I wore a v neck top and was subjected to comments such as "hey skyfull how much for a lapdance ha ha ha ha" and more.
I told them it was making me uncomfortable, I didnt like it and while we usually have a bit of a joke they were taking it too far (and FFS it was a v top, not like I was flashing my cleavage).
And suddenly they get all arsey and tell me I cant take a joke, its only banter.
I feel a bit torn, like I want to complain but I dont feel like I can as up to that point we always had a bit of a laugh. I just feel this overstepped the mark.
Think I'll wear a polo neck tomorrow...