Dp and I have had it arranged for weeks now that we would go for s night out on the 20th March. This is basically to celebrate the end of a long difficult work placement I've had (of which the last shift is on that day) plus it's payday and as I've said, it's been planned ages.
Tonight he comes in saying his mates want to go on a night out on the 20th and he wondered if we could rearrange our night. I'm pissed off because as usual he's more concerned with upsetting others than he is about upsetting me and also he knew full well I was looking forward to going out that specific night as my last shift is that day and it was the perfect end to it all. He's now making out that I'm being unreasonable but we've had it planned ages. If it was the other way around i would simply say to friends "sorry, dp and I have arrangements that night" and it pisses me off that I don't get the same respect.
He's done it to me before, we'd arranged to go to cinema one night. I was really looking forward to it but then his mates decided they wanted him at cinema with them the same night so guess who had to change plans. Been together 3 years and live together brw, this isn't a new relationship