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Discussing abortion in work

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Thurlow · 02/03/2015 11:05

Girl in our office (dozen people, mostly in their 30s, men and women) has just started a conversation about abortion. Came from the gender selection law that is being considered at the moment - she wanted to know more about it. We all chatted and I said that I imagined it would be hard to police as you don't really have to give any detailed explanation of why you want an abortion anyway. Girl then went on a bit of a rant about how shocking she thought it was that you can basically just get an abortion on demand. She's from the RoI, which I guess will influence her views. She wasn't exactly anti abortion, just clearly thinks it shouldn't be easy to achieve.

One of the other guys clearly picked up from how I was explaining the process that I've had one, and tried to calm the girl down a bit. But she was very strident. I wish I'd said something more now but, you know, it's work, and I didn't want to get too wound up on a Monday morning at 10.30...

Anyway, I can't help thinking maybe there are better times and places to talk about potentially sensitive issues like abortion (or god knows how many other emotive topics) than in an office full of people whose backgrounds and personalities you don't really know?

This has annoyed me this morning Angry

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countessmarkyabitch · 02/03/2015 17:16

I believe you, I'm just saying I find it really odd and can't quite imagine how those conversations go.
I'm guessing the woman you are complaining about was of much the same opinion, is all. How was she to know that you want to talk all about a contraversial topic, in detail, but that it wasn't ok for her to give a personal opinion on that topic?

Horseradishes · 02/03/2015 17:45

I think it's better to keep out of office politics and chit chat beyond the very bland. Politics, religion and morality should be avoided at all costs, people will judge you whatever you say.

She should have kept quiet, but I'm sure you're not the only person she offended and maybe her big mouth will cost her career wise in the future. Do you really want to divulge personal info that people may judge you on?

InanimateCarbonRod · 02/03/2015 17:47

Being from ROI I'm insulted that you pin her belief on her nationality. Don't tar us all thank you very muchly.

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