Concerns friend from school. We're 28. I'm growing increasingly concerned that all is not as it should be although i have always had a sneaky suspicion but guess i thought she'd grow out of it.
Shes always been a bad drunk - gets v drunk v easily, can be a bit rude to barstaff etc and is v flirtatious. Makes a huge show of herself as she is always much drunker than everyone else. She highly embarrassed me with odd inappropriate tales of sexual exploits at my recent birthday party and friends thought she was a bit insane when they met her for the first time.
She and i havent lived in the same town since school until v recently and we now live 15 mins away from each other in a big city so i see more of her and i feel that she is still the same character as she was at 19. She is quite insecure and makes passing comments about worrying about never meeting someone. I am increasingly concerned that she may have a sex addiction. Reasons as follows:
- makes outrageously inappropriate comments about sex to people she doesnt know well. At my birthday party she shreiked at two of my friends who she only met for the first time that "they weregoing to fu ck in the carpark" in a chanty way, like the ki-ss-ing rhyme. They were friends and were bewildered by the comment and it was quite a joke at the party afterwards.
- casually mentioned to me recently that she cannot be sure even to the nearest 50 in terms of how many men shes slept with and currently has multiple sexual partners she met on tinder. She admits to being addicted to it and is always on it. I worry becase she puts herself in a vulnerable position with strangers.
I could list countless things but wont for now in the interest of this post getting too long. I am seeing her on fri night and i am tempted to air my concerns but dont wish to come across smug and condescending. Aibu? Please tell me if i am. But serious alarm bells have been ringing lately and i regret never having said anything before. Maybe i am just a prude.