Regular but name changed because I need a MIL rant. I've come down with a nasty virus and feel rotten. MIL has been over and tutted at me having given the children hotdogs for lunch and used her catchphrase 'how much effort can it be' in this instance to make some sandwiches with some chopped up veggies on the side. I think the ready mix pancake thread has weighed on my mind too (as my DC got them last night for convenience) as I'm sat here feeling the rage and thinking that individually these things are not much extra effort but cumulatively, with all the other stuff I have to do, they are quite a lot of extra effort actually. I feel that things are tough the moment and to keep my head above water I need to take some easy options. AIBU to want to tell my MIL to stick her judgments up her bum?