Thank you Needs and Ilive
How can you predict the future. You can't. We were so close, we had good jobs, a mortgage, engaged, making plans for our wedding. Then wham he went off with someone else. It was HIS choice.
do you honestly think I could have predicted the future carol? You know when we got together at 17 years, went through uni together, got engaged, bought our first house, got great jobs, had our first baby who was autistic although not dx till 2 years ago. My funny, loving, sensitive rock of a man met someone else and left us.
He has a new family now with someone else, the girl he left me for dumped him 3 weeks before their wedding. I bet you wouldnt berate him for his choices now would you