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To think this builder is starting to border on harrassment

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listsandbudgets · 11/02/2015 22:14

I got some quotes for a job in November. It was a big job (about £22,000) so I got four quotes, went with one of them after taking references and emailed the other 3 to say that I'd decided to use another builder on this occassion.

Since then one of the builders has been phoning me at least once a week and often twice. His quote was £10k higher than the next lowest (which we went with the other 2 were a bit lower but I didn't like the builders.). I told him several times that we had given the job to someone else but he still keeps phoning and emailing. I've been dropping his phone calls to voice mail and ignoring his emails for the last couple of weeks but quite honestly I've had enough and am close to accusing him of harassment. He phoned again today and left a message to say that he wasn't happy with my decision and thought I'd gone with a second rate building firm just to save money and the job would be badly done. He sounded almost threatening to be honest.

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RedorBlack · 13/02/2015 06:48

Wow I think you dodged the bullet by not using him, he'd be a total pain to work with.

Have to say your boss sounds great though!

Whereisegg · 13/02/2015 07:21

I wonder how many vulnerable people he has convinced to use him rather than competitors by harassing people Angry

flanjabelle · 13/02/2015 07:29

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cozietoesie · 13/02/2015 07:30

Do Trading Standards know of him?

ptumbi · 13/02/2015 08:31

Gator - Grin at asking your Tesco delivery guy if 3 weeks is ok! What an idiot.

List - is he not on Checkatrade/rated people? (Although possibly not...)

Whatisaweekend · 13/02/2015 09:48

Aah I like the sound of your actual builder - he seems quite solid. What a weirdo this other builder seems - glad you dont have to deal with it anymore and your boss (who also sounds nice) is dealing with it. How on earth does he get any work?!!

MissPenelopeLumawoo2 · 13/02/2015 10:21

Gator- Do you think you could ask your Tesco driver what sort of timescale he thinks is reasonable to trim back the pear tree in our garden? I would be interested in his opinions as he is so knowledgeable. Hmm

Norland · 13/02/2015 10:38

Email him this link:

www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1997/40

PlumpingUpPartridge · 13/02/2015 10:49

I think a namechange to TescoDeliveryGuy would give my posts a certain believability and gravitas.

HighwayDragon · 13/02/2015 10:50

Any update

WeatherWatchingWitch · 13/02/2015 10:56

He is barking OP! Glad this has been taken out of your hands now.

laughingmyarseoff · 13/02/2015 17:26

OP you can leave fb on that harassing guy if you want?

www.checkatrade.com/

listsandbudgets · 13/02/2015 22:40

Solicitor has sent "fuck off letter" (sorry my boss does not mince his words when he's angry). Oddly no contact from him today.... I am missing him Grin

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