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..to think a Body Shop stall at a baby group is exploitative?

148 replies

PurdeyBirdie · 30/01/2015 09:17

I'm a new member at a baby and toddler group and on their fb page yesterday a mum posted to say she would be setting up her Body Shop stall for 'all the mummies to take advantage of the massive 30% sale which finishes Saturday. I can also tell you more about how easy it is to earn a bit of extra money yourself (on average about £250 a month), and all the benefit of hosting your own Body Shop party.'

I commented that I thought it was inappropriate to flog yet more stuff at new mums who assemble at baby groups to engage with their babies and make friends. I was told that the group is happy to support new businesses for mums and I should basically shut my gob (that was from one young mum). I asked if there was a line to be drawn: would hairdressers be able to set up a chair? A spray tan booth? Nail bar? The answer was: 'Barring health and safety issues I don't see why not. We are all about supporting new mums with any ventures to better the lives of themselves and their kids'.

Another mum popped on to say that her bread company took off massively after she began selling it to this group and she would be forever grateful, blah, blah..she went on to say 'After seven years on the baby circuit I find it can all get a bit 'yawn'. Bring on the Body Shop stall, I say!' I said there was a difference between selling home made wares (perhaps for charity or to raise funds for the group) and flogging beauty products from a massive organisation like Body Shop.

In response to this another mum came on to say: 'The body shop although a massive organisation has excellent ethics and stays true to those ethics and original beliefs. The company also does a lot for charity and environmental issues around the world, help one mum.... Help the world!' Confused

Am I being an unsisterly turd? Do I have a point at all? I'm just uncomfortable with the notion that anyone can set up business at a baby group and target assembled women who simply want to make friends and play with their babies.

OP posts:
Mamette · 21/09/2021 10:12

I couldn’t believe how naive the responses were and then I realised this a zombie thread from 2015.

missmolotov · 21/09/2021 10:36

She is basically doing that to recruit people under her, Body Shop at home is a pyramid scheme/ MLM that preys on stay at home mums.

Viviennemary · 21/09/2021 10:41

YANBU. Don't go while the stall is there. Its really cheeky when she isnt even a member. But if the majority want it there isnt a lot you can do.

Viviennemary · 21/09/2021 10:42

Oh dear Zombie thread.

PineappleWilson · 21/09/2021 10:43

If the woman was just selling hand cream, I'd have no issues. You have really dry hands from the nappy changes etc. I would have an issue about the MLM element of this, her trying to encourage mums who have a new baby and realised they don't want to go back to their office based jobs to join her "team". That's well off.

MarmaladeMakers · 21/09/2021 10:45

I think the issue will be sorted now
It's been 6 years

Peaplant20 · 21/09/2021 10:45

I don’t see the problem, if you don’t want to buy anything then don’t! I find it hard to get out with my LO so I’d appreciate the chance for a mooch tbh.

Peaplant20 · 21/09/2021 10:46

Oh no I’ve made the same mistake 😂 zombie thread!

Hoppinggreen · 21/09/2021 10:50

Look, I totally agree with you and sure as Hell wouldn’t buy anything.
However, even Gobby me would have kept quiet

Hoppinggreen · 21/09/2021 10:51

Oh FFS

Perpop · 21/09/2021 10:53

Basic MLM praying on vulnerable mums. You’re not being unreasonable!

Viviennemary · 21/09/2021 10:56

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Rannva · 21/09/2021 10:57

Bleh, no I hate it too. Mothers are seen as idiots by these companies, lonely and stupid fools who can't wait to be caught up in MLM schemes because 'supporting women's businesses' (not a business) and buy tat.

Wouldn't go near it with a bargepole.

Rannva · 21/09/2021 10:58

Really wish mnet would just ban the resurrection of threads.

Hoppinggreen · 21/09/2021 10:58

ZOMBIE people!!

ChaToilLeam · 21/09/2021 11:02

“I can also tell you more about how easy it is to earn a bit of extra money yourself (on average about £250 a month), and all the benefit of hosting your own Body Shop party”

It’s this bit that I find truly exploitative. One thibn having a stall, quite another pushing an MLM scheme. Hmm

Nc123 · 21/09/2021 11:05

Body Shop At Home is an MLM so she won’t just be looking to sell, she will be looking to recruit, too. On those grounds it’s absolutely not the same as the bread company or even a hairdresser’s chair - because those wouldn’t be looking to find recruits in the group.

You’re right, it’s exploitative.

BingBongToTheMoon · 21/09/2021 11:09

MLM’s are all shite.

BingBongToTheMoon · 21/09/2021 11:09

Damnit I never noticed it was a zombie…..sorry.

katemuff · 21/09/2021 12:03

I 100% agree OP. Those saying you are ridiculous and no one has to buy anything are ignoring the conformity and social contagion that the sellers are relying on to encourage sales. They will often have a 'customer' make a pre arranged purchase to encourage sales.
Do mens support groups have people selling shower gel and other crap? No. So why should this one?

MarmaladeMakers · 21/09/2021 13:57

@Viviennemary

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Too annoying.

At least you tried to tell them 😄😄😄😄😄😄
Viviennemary · 21/09/2021 13:59

I did. Sigh. Grin

waybill · 21/09/2021 14:08

In a situation like this, perhaps the ideal option would be to have a quiet word with someone on the committee, express your feelings, and ask them to bring it up at the next committee meeting.

(I'm a former chair of a parent & baby group by the way).

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