My point about responsibilities is that, and yes it's an opinion (if you aren't interested in other people's why are you on a forum?) is that the ability to carry a child should impact a mother's sense of responsibility. If that makes me a misogynist then fine. I'd rather be that than responsible for harm to an unborn child.
Here you are saying that because I have the ability to carry a child, I should be responsible for any child who may come to be conceived inside me.
I'm sorry but I don't think I have to conform to your idea of responsibility in order to have dominion over my own body, as you seemed to suggest up thread.
I may have the opinion that I find home births entirely irresponsible to put the child through possible unnessecery risk but that does not give me the right to dictate what the female must do with her own body.
And thats what we are talking about with smoking isn't it? Its possible unnessecery risk and it is the choice of the female if she wishes to smoke or not during pregnancy.
In order for a woman to ensure that ALL unnessecery risks such as obesity, smoking, alcohol, diet, carbon monoxide, hot baths, and special needs/ disability are to be minimised, you are effectively dictating that all fertile woman of childbearing age should be slim, active, not smoke, not drink, eat healthily, stay away from cars, never take hot baths, use jacuzzis, take supplements every morning and basically not have sex over 40 as the risk of creating a baby with down syndrome is just too high. That way all babies from the day the sperm hits the egg (because they are already unborn humans before we POAS) will be protected from the selfish risk taking mothers and all will be well in the world according to MRSC