He doesn't drink everyday, just at weekends, which means Fri, Sat, Sun.
When he drinks he will have a whole bottle of wine, unless I'm sharing, in which case he'll have some brandy or whisky after the bottle's empty.
He doesn't suffer from any nasty personality change, you'd never really know he'd been drinking, still carries on with chores (did all the ironing with his bottle last night!) doesn't drink until after the DC are in bed wouldn't dream of drinking if he's got to drive etc so there's not really anything for me to complain about as such. The main reasons it bothers me are:
- It's too much to be good for his health
- He drinks so much and his body is so accustomed to it that there don't appear to be any ill effects - you should notice the difference when someone's had a whole bottle IMO
- When he drinks he snores - this is selfishly my main bugbear. I've told him countless times and he either doesn't believe me or doesn't care. He knew that today I had some important meetings (to me) and I've had to sit through them on hardly any sleep
So, is he drinking too much and AIBU to think that, especially on a Sunday night, he should be more considerate and rein it in so that I can sleep?