Just remembered i had left the food shopping, including raw meat, milk etc, in the car since before lunch. Took dd2(1) up to the bathroom where dh was with dd1(2.5). Exactly the same annoyed reaction as every time i ask him to look after them both, oh couldn't you wait five minutes until we came down? Well, no, because by then i might forget again and then all the food will go off in the car and we will get food poisoning. And he was entertaining a toddler on the toilet, ffs, not splitting the atom,and its not like i was handing him a sleeping newborn, i just sat a one year old on the floor next to him.
It drives me up the wall that whenever he needs to look after both of them i am expected to wait while he goes to the loo, has a shower, makes a coffee and gets ready. I, on the other hand, take one of them to the loo with me, and never get to shower let alone on my own. Getting in the kids bath is the only way i fit it in at all! He, on the other hand, stays in a hotel all week and expects these luxuries every day.
sorry for the rant, but aibu to expect a grown adult to be able to manage two toddlers for two minutes while i do something for all our benefit? And to do so with good grace?