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To feel guilty about only having 1?

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Kab13 · 13/01/2015 08:07

I don't really want to be a parent all over again. It sounds harsh but we don't get a lot of help (not that we should do or anything) and dd was such hard work when she was little. Bad colic to start, resulted in little sleep for 6 months, she hated being put down so couldn't even put her in the buggy to go out, spent pretty much 6 months on my own, in the lounge bouncing her over my arm to get her to stop crying.
Anyway , things have just started to get a little bit easier- she's 2, going to nursery for 2 half days, sleeps ( even if she is up at 5am) and I enjoy her a lot.
However I am loving the freedom of having a toddler and can't imagine going back to the start all over again.
People always ask when my next one will be and look saddened when I say I doubt there will be another . I'm usually told I will have another when she's older etc.
I think I saw a thread similar to this the other day but I can't find it!
Is it that bad to be an only child? I have two sisters and I barely see them :/

OP posts:
MuttersDarkly · 14/01/2015 09:05

Having one is fine.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Only_child

ZingTheGreat · 14/01/2015 09:18

phoenix

you are on the right track there! we have seven and one of my stock replies is "well we kept on going hoping we get one that behaves, but no such luck.."

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nickEcave · 14/01/2015 09:29

My first daughter was an easy baby - took to breastfeeding quickly and was sleeping through the night in her cot by 5 months. My second daughter, born 3 years later did not sleep through a single night until her third birthday by which time I had aged 10 years and was on my knees. If she had been my first child there is NO WAY ON EARTH I would have had another Grin

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