This was typed from a laptop that's tied to my job (as I can't afford to buy my own computer)
from a cold (because I can't afford to run the heating) house
that's shared with 3 adults (because we can't afford to live alone)
(well was once a house, now divided into multiple houses) -we can't afford anywhere bigger,
As I look down it occurs to me that all of the clothes that I wear have been gifted to me, (either Christmas of birthdays over many years) because I can't afford to buy clothes.
soon, I'll drive to work in a car that's a couple of decades old (because I can't afford a new one)
that I've had to learn to service and fix myself (as I can't afford to use garages -and could certainly never afford to go to a main dealer where parts may be just on the shelf),
I'll work all day and when I return home we'll eat left over stew that has been hiding in the back of the freezer...
(and yet I don't qualify for benefits -my problem is the amount of debts I built up when I was younger, this will continue for at least 5 - 10 years (if not more) as I can only make the minimum payments -which barely pays for the interest added each month)
My job also expects me to work all day, and then when I get home I'm frequently "on call" and get woken up through the night as well. I fully understand what it's like to barely focus, to be so tired that your head hurts and you can barely keep your eyes open, and to then be told that you should be grateful for what you have.
So I do know some of what you are going through. I know what it's like to be told to "suck it up" (though that's not what I'm doing.) I do empathise and sympathise with you.
I know exactly what it is like to struggle to meet the basic needs of living and to have gone for years without the things that I want
Being on benefits is not a walk in the park, but then neither is working!
Without wanting to start some sort of infighting war, but you say that your basic needs (such as some respite car to enable to to sleep) are not met, don't you take it to mean that the system is broken if you can't get sleep. yet others get by quite happily in benefits, and manage to save vast amounts to just service their wants
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2246104/Unemployed-single-mother-benefits-spends-2-000-Christmas-20-presents-children.html
www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/6134355/Meet-benefits-couple-who-plan-to-spend-15k-on-Xmas-splurge-paid-for-by-YOU.html
(No, I don't think that's the status quo for benefits, and I don't think that those papers are quality journalism.)
but I do standby the statement that society has become somewhat warped on what are basic needs (food and clothes), and wants going away for a holiday, or wanting wine or beer to drink in the evenings, lots of Christmas presents.
I'm aware that many people receive benefits as well as working, (free nursery hours, working tax credits, housing allowances etc.)
As I said earlier I'm also aware that those on benefits also pay tax, and that tax helps to fund "the welfare state system".
I'm not trying to come across as superior to anyone, having a job does not make anyone superior, paying tax does not make anyone superior, earning so little that you're below the threshold for paying tax doesn't make you superior or inferior either.
As I said earlier I'd rather have nothing left to give than have lots more and live in a society that did not have a welfare system to look after the poorest
If you don't give a damn about anyone else why do you immediately expect them to give a damn about you?