The situation when we first moved into our 4 bedroomed house:
I had two kids aged 12 and 14 who lived with us full time.
He had two kids aged 15 and 17 who stayed with us every saturday night.
Therefore, as his two had to share the room one night a week, they got the biggest bedroom. My eldest was in 2nd to biggest and my youngest was in the smallest.
The situation now:
I have a 14 and 16 year old son who live with us full time.
He has a 17 year old son who visits almost every saturday night (but not always) and a 19 year old son who visits once in a blue moon.
AIBU to suggest to DH that we swap the bedrooms around allowing my eldest to have the biggest bedroom, my youngest to have the 2nd to biggest bedroom and his youngest to have the smallest bedroom with a pull out bed/bunks incase eldest stops now and again? Otherwise the biggest bedroom is just sat empty most of the time.
It frustrates me that I'm having to shop for space saving furniture for DS2's little bedroom when the bedroom next door has nothing in it but two single beds which are barely used.
I'm thinking of doing up the smallest room properly to DSS2s taste - making it "his own" rather than just the "big empty room he stays in on a saturday night" and if eldest visits, he can use the pull out bed or whatever - it's that rare these days that I don't see the issue really.
DH however can be rather volatile, especially if it involves his kids and this could well blow up into a hugee row if I dare to mention it :( so if there is any way I'm being unreasonable, please tell me so I can save myself the hassle!
Is the fall out worth my point or should I just leave things be?