Sunna that sort of thinking has cropped up here recently. A woman selling her house, giving her kids money, downsizing and expecting to reap all the benefits going as she will have no assets.
I nearly cried, screamed, slapped with a wet kipper...
This is most definitely the sign of the absolute decline of any real 'society'. What was set up to support the needy is now expected, covetted as a right and is now replacing any need to be self reliant, independent.
I don't think I can actually express what I mean without sound wholly PollyAnna about it, but the gist would be, I grew up piss poor and was encouraged to work, DH has a very strong Protestant work ethic (too strong, to the detriment of his health). Both of us have worked since we were 16/17 and have never claimed any benefits. We are proud of our achievements and, whilst not baby boomers, are fully expecting similar fear and loathing to be aimed at us as we slide into retirement, claim our state pension and augment it it with our savings.
Savings we have because we have not ever needed all the stuff The Joneses have, foreign holidays every year, electronic gizmoes, new phones, iPads and other accoutrements that seem to maketh the wo/man. Sadly we are savers and they are not in fashion at the moment. No one will care that we started saving as kids, green shield stamps, post office savings book etc - all cost pennies, we saved pennies.... it started a habit.
All through my teens I saved pennies, into my 20s, when I worked behind a bar and he was a brickie, we saved pennies, slowly the pennies became pounds and the pounds accumulated. I did warn this would sound very PollyAnna, didn't I? We have never done as the ILs have done - lived every day as though it was a gift, that is why it is called The Present (I still hope they are song lyrics, SIL seemed to love those words, she certainly lived by them for years). We saved our socks off, avoided debt as much as possible and did without as and when.
Sorry, I digress. I think I mean that the current young generation is not unique, financially I would assume they are back were my great grandparents were, with all the social and financial inequities, but they are less able to cope with the demands of the days they live in as they have heightened expectations.