Going to Uni was not an option for me, so I certainly did not benefit from free tuition fees.
My first holiday abroad did not happen until I was in my mid twenties. We did not have a car, telephone, washing machine etc., for the first 4 or 5 years of marriage, because we could not afford it and had no sense of entitlement. That was just the way things were.
When my children were small I went out to work when my husband came in, there was no childcare provision in those days.
I would say that we were in our late forties before life became easier. We supported both sons through university and have continued to help where we can. I work full time and also run around like an idiot looking after my mother with dementia and MIL with bowel cancer.
I love my sons to pieces, but it drives me to distraction when they complain about saving for a deposit for a mortgage when they spend ridiculous amounts on mobile phone contracts, have they latest gadgets and buy their lunches every day.
Nothing wrong with the way anyone chooses to spend their money, but I do get pissed off with hearing how easy everything was/is for us and how hard it is for the younger generation. It has always been hard for the younger generation, no change there. BUT there are more support systems and opportunities these days too.
I DO have sympathy for anyone starting out today, but don't heap the blame on us - we have been there and done that too!
As said earlier, there is no easy answer, but pointing the finger at pensions is just as bad as pointing the finger at single parents, long term unemployed and anyone needing long term and expensive medical care. We are all drawing on state funds and all believe we are 'entitled'.
I would have no issue with delaying/ means testing winter fuel, bus passes, prescriptions etc., but fear the sum saved would be a drop in the ocean, and probably swallowed up by the additionAl costs of administering a means tested scheme.