I can see part of the school these teenagers went to from my house, my brothers teens knew all five of the kids who died in this crash, and were particularly friendly with one of them.
Walking to (a different) school with my son yesterday and today has been a strange experience.
As soon as we left our house we could see the police outside the school these kids went to, standing at all the gates, talking to the kids as they arrived. It's a big site and they were all around it, at every gate, yesterday and today. The school flag is flying at half mast.
All the kids walking towards us to get to school were quiet, they're usually very noisy but they either weren't speaking at all or whispering very quietly. Every bit of conversation we could hear was about these kids and the crash. Lots of them were carrying flowers to leave for their friends.
Even at DS's school the flag was at half mast and the parents there were also talking quietly about how terrible it is.
It's awful. Locally, people are really feeling badly about this, so sorry for those who died and their families.
DS is too young for us to be worrying about him learning to drive, but DH and I have bent talking about what to do for the best when he's older and we have no answers yet. Is it better to drive him ourselves and risk him being a passenger for someone else in his peer group, or teach him to drive and hope he's sensible while he gains experience?
Even the black boxes, there were two boys killed recently because their black box had a time limit on it and they were hurrying to get home before the curfew on it began. So even that might not guarantee safety.
I don't know what the answer is.
If anyone connected to these five teenagers is reading, I'm so very sorry for your loss 